So Pissed *RANT*

[lele316]

UGGHH I'm so flippin pissed. Found out my ex and his lil twit are having ANOTHER child together...a lil back story...
My ex(divorce not final) left me and out lil girl when she was a lil over a yr for a girl he has having an affair with. Found out & kicked him out in June and told him he had had to make a decision...he chose her and her son(who she got pregnant with was a McDonald exchange student from turkey who ran back to turkey when he found out she wouldn't have an abortion). His BIL who we were renting from told me if I didnt pay the rent (which i couldnt afford on my own) had to move so I moved in my parents July 8th of that yr. Well by the and of July he (supposedly) knocked her up and they have a son together. Few months later realized his mistake blah blah got back together, well that lasted 4 months til a lil over a month after *his* son was born and he found out she was seeing someone since a wk after he left her. Fine whatever I tried. Fast forward 2 yrs and he has not seen our daughter since the day I moved except for about 4 hrs when I took our daughter to her cousins Christening (his brothers kids). he talks to her on the phone anywhere from 2 to 3 times a wk and only since her past birthday and christmas sent her a gift, before that not a card not a gift nothing. Tonight I find out the him and his lil twit are having another baby and everyone including them hopes they finally get there girl (her child from the other guy is a boy too). I don't want him back in anyway I am with a spectacular guy who treats me and my daughter like absolute gold, but it just pisses me off he has no time for his daughter now to even bother seeing her or making any effort to be apart of her actual life outside of the damn phone while he is working(because he cant call to talk to me or his dd while he is around his lil twit) and they cry poverty yet they're having another kid WTF
UUUUGGGGHHH he frustrates me so damn much....sorry just had to get that off my chest and there are to many eyes on facebook lol

 

[291]

Sounds like you're both better off without him. Also sounds like they're having babies for money, or to have more kids in their care to contribute less to you and your daughter Sad sack father Sorry

 

[lele316]

Thank you, we most definitely are...it doesnt bother me so much about them having a kid, I mean me and my bf have been ttc for almost a yr now because I know it is difficult for me to even get preg so we knew it would take awhile, but what bothers me is how this is now even more on the back burner my dd goes, all she remembers when were together is how he idolized her and she was everything now when he does get off his ass to actually see her and she goes to his house attention she should be getting is going to be split not just with 2 friggin kids that call him daddy but the lil twit and then another friggin kid I just feel so bad for my daughter...I thought I chose better for her

 

[CharCharxxx]

Sounds like a total waste of space, at least you have moved on you are so much better off without people like that in your life! X

 

[loulou33]

He doesn't deserve your Daughter!
Unfortunately it's a sad fact of life - we don't always know how things/people will turn out.
He sounds like an idiot, let him get on with it, his decisions, his regrets, his loss.
So long as you and your daughter are happy, don't let it eat at you.

 

[redlemonade]

I'm sorry to hear what you've been through with your ex. The other ladies are totally right, you and your daughter are better off without him. As loulou33 said, don't let it eat at you. If he makes a bad choice, so be it. You're happy with your daughter and partner and your daughter will be absolutely fine without your ex in her life, because she has you and she has your partner. I know it's easier said than done, but try let it go.

 

[LoveSanrio]

My 3 older daughters are from a previous relationship. They are 8, 7, and almost 6 years old. Their "sperm donor" has not tried to make contact with them in ANY way at all (even though he knows our number) in almost 3 years. He also owes me 7,000 in child support, and counting. He doesn't work (NEVER has), yet went on to have yet another child with his current gf (who also doesn't work). They live with her mom.

My husband raises my girls as his own, and we have a biological girl together, but you would never know they weren't his. He treats them all like gold, and they all call him dad. He EARNED that title. My girls never ask about their other "dad", and are very happy. They are so much better off without him, and I am soooooo happy that he doesn't try to contact them in any way. He is a total POS. I used to be angry about it, until one day I realized what a blessing in disguise it was for my girls.

 

[lele316]

Thanks ladfies and all of you are right he is a piece of s**t and I know we r better off. He does pay his child support (he took me to court because he wanted to make sure he gave me only what he had to). I dont let what they are doing with their life eat at me or really get to me the only thing that pisses me off is how me and him can be communicating perfectly fine but only when he isnt in front of her. When he is in front of her he tries to act like this tough guy kind of bullcrap because she is always yapping in the backround like a lil annoying dog and I call him out on that. Hence why he only calls when he is at work and alone.
My guy treats her completely like his own daughter (he has one a yr older then mine who he has custody of cause her mom is a waste) and I am thankful everyday for that.
Iits just so frustrating he agrees with me whenever we get into how he is failing our dd and all and he is going to do better bah blah blah but he dont have the balls to stand up to his twit to actually do it. He is too afraid she will take his son away from him.