So sad its all over now.

Discussion in 'Miscarriage Support' started by daniella00, Sep 28, 2008.

  1. daniella00

    daniella00 Mother of two!

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    Its all over! I went into labour yesterday morning at 2.30am and gave birth at 1.30pm. The baby was 18 weeks.
    I had to give birth, it was so horrid i was all on my own with my OH in a hospital birth and it came out in my pants, the nurse came in straight after and told me it was the baby. I didnt see it, i couldn't have coped with that.
    I was sent home last night which was good.

    Its funny because i dont feel as upset as i thought i would, i think i knew from when i started bleeding that this would be how it ended.
    The pregnancy never felt right from the start, i never really felt pregnant.

    So this is my goodbye, for now anyway!
     
  2. **angel**

    **angel** Mummy to 2 little boys!

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    :hugs: i am so sorry xxxxxxxxxx
     
  3. Barneyboo

    Barneyboo Mummy of 2 beauty's

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    :hug:I just want to say I am so very sorry for your loss x x x
     
  4. misstrouble

    misstrouble Slowly going Insane!!!

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    I am so sorry for your loss and that you had to go through that terrible ordeal. I have just miscarried at 8 weeks, but like you I knew from the start, and never felt pregnant. Life can be incredibly cruel.
    Take care of yourself
    :hug:
     
  5. NickyT75

    NickyT75 RIP Sophie my angel

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    Aw! sweetheart im so sorry for your loss :hugs:

    You are probably feeling a bit numb at the moment due to the trauma of what has happened.

    It will sink in & you need to allow yourself time to grieve.

    I hope you have plenty of support around you coz it is very easy to feel isolated when something as devastating as this happens.

    You might wanna join SANDS support forum & chat to people who know what you are going through
    I find it very helpful to talk about what has happened to people who arent emotionally involved but have suffered similar tragedies

    I have been through a similar experience recently so if you ever feel you'd like to talk, feel free to PM me at any time :hugs: xx
     
  6. polo_princess

    polo_princess ♥ Brookes Mummy ♥

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    Oh no, im so sorry sweetie :hugs:
     
  7. Sovereign

    Sovereign Well-Known Member

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    I am so sorry! x
     
  8. wantababybump

    wantababybump Well-Known Member

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    So sorry for your loss :* :hug:
     
  9. jonnanne3

    jonnanne3 Our miracle is HERE!

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    I am so sorry for your loss. :hug: Thinking of you. :hugs:
     
  10. Snowball

    Snowball Resident badass

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    I'm so sorry hun:hugs:

    I agree with Nicky, if you feel like talking then have a look on SANDS. I lost our son at 21 weeks this year and talking there has really helped me.

    You can pm me anytime hun. Thinking of you:hugs:
     
  11. keldac

    keldac 3 mc, 1 angel and 3 lc

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    I have replied to your other thread but I just wanted to say - I have miscarried 3 times and lost a little girl aged 6 weeks and 2 days so I truly know how you are feeling. If you need to talk please PM me xxx
    :hug:
     
  12. xJG30

    xJG30 Tom & Mummy <3

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    Sorry for your loss

    :hugs:

    xx
     
  13. todteach

    todteach Dreams can come true

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    So sorry hun. :hug:
     
  14. chrissie33

    chrissie33 Mummy to two monkeys

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    Oh god hun, words cannot describe how I feel for you. Give yourself some time to grieve xx
     
  15. faith_may

    faith_may Guest

    I'm so sorry for you lost :hugs:
     
  16. charliesmom

    charliesmom Dad, daughter, 2 chis

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    So sorry to hear that happened to you :(

    If you don't mind me asking, did the doctor say what happened?
     
  17. Chris77

    Chris77 Mommy to PJ and Gavin

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    Daniella, I am so very sorry for your loss. :hugs: :hugs:
     
  18. superp123

    superp123 Super Auntie to 3 + 1

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    I am so sorry for your loss. :hugs: I don't think I really have words that will make you feel any better. But remember that we're here to listen if you need us. Big :hug:
    P
     
  19. cerilou

    cerilou Well-Known Member

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    I am thinking of you and sending you big :hug:
     
  20. daniella00

    daniella00 Mother of two!

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    They didnt say!
    I have to go back in six weeks and they will talk about it with me.

    Thank you for your lovely reply!

    xx
     

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