So sad today

[pinkneon]

Hello everyone. So I know hormones are flying around all over the place but I had a meeting yesterday which I found difficult and emotional but it is still affecting me today. I have spent most of last night and most of today in tears. I know people have said that it doesn't hurt the baby but I am a little worried because I have another meeting next Tuesday with the same person as yesterday and am worried that I am going to spend the next few weeks in tears! I think if I wasn't pregnant it would still affect me, though not as much (though actually I wouldn't be having these meetings). So what can I do to stop crying? I am finding it so hard at the moment. All I want is a hug and there is no one around to give me one. For some reason where I live people seem to think everything can be solved with a cup of tea ... Which is so annoying because it can't! I have tried getting out the house for a bit but that seems to make me feel worse. I don't want to be around anyone and just want my teddy and my bed so I can cry. Sorry this is a bit random and probably doesn't make much sense now ...

 

[crazy84]

I totally understand. I had a friend...he was an ex that I once loved very much and remained friends with... well he passed away on Wednesday. I have just cried and cried.... randomly through out the past several days..... I have worried that it might be bad on my baby. But I think that it is ok. His funeral is today, so I am hoping that helps me put things to rest and my emotions go back to normal.... I just wanted you to know that I understand on the crying because I have been doing it for days too. I hope that things get better for you.

 

[debgreasby]

 

[FlatShoes]

Awww, I want to jump in my car and come and hug you (i'll bring Krispy Kreme too!)

Don't worry too much about baby, concentrate on feeling better yourself. You don't want to add worry to teh upset you're already feeling.

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[pinkneon]

Thanks flatshoes. Where in Hertfordshire are you???? I know Hertfordshire quite well - I used to live there and my family live there!

Am thinking I might cook some dinner and see if that cheers me up ...

 

[mazee71]

This hormone malarkey is a right pile of poo. Sorry you are feeling so low, know how you feel, I've been in tears for most of today.

Hope tomorrow is brighter

 

[Dizzymum]

Sending lots of hugs your way hun, and hoping you'll feel better tomorrow,xxx

 

[smiffy85]

Sending love n hugs! Not had days of crying but I have had times of irrational wanting to cry at the tiniest little thing! Weird ay?!? Read the thread about pregnancy brain I just posted on - it really made me laugh and hopefully will cheer you up! xxx

 

[FlatShoes]

Thanks flatshoes. Where in Hertfordshire are you???? I know Hertfordshire quite well - I used to live there and my family live there!

Am thinking I might cook some dinner and see if that cheers me up ...

Hitchin! It's near Stevenage (don't judge me lol) xx

 

[pinkneon]

I know it! Well I know where Steveange is ... I think! And my sister used to live in Hitchen ... Or maybe she still does ... I dunno ... Baby brain!

 

[FlatShoes]

I know it! Well I know where Steveange is ... I think! And my sister used to live in Hitchen ... Or maybe she still does ... I dunno ... Baby brain!

hahha small world! If you ever come to visit let me know and we'll do hot choc and cake!!! xx

 

[pinkneon]

I know it! Well I know where Steveange is ... I think! And my sister used to live in Hitchen ... Or maybe she still does ... I dunno ... Baby brain!

hahha small world! If you ever come to visit let me know and we'll do hot choc and cake!!! xx

To be honest I hardly ever go up there now. It's such a long way and there are bad memories in Hertfordshire that I'd rather stay in sunny Sussex! Plus I don't like being out of my comfort zone ... But at some point if my sister doesn't come here I guess I'd go there ...!