So Scared!!

Discussion in 'Pregnancy - First Trimester' started by TLosch, Dec 9, 2009.

  1. TLosch

    TLosch Jaxson Kyle

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    I am 5W0D and today is the first day I haven't spotted. I have had 4 miscarriages in the past. I have never spotted red before only brown. My HGC is at 2,142 as of yesterday. Has anyone ever spotted and had a normal pregnancy? I just don't think I can handle another miscarriage. The Dr. says so far it seems normal but I just can't shake a bad feeling!
     
  2. mightyspu

    mightyspu No life since Aug 2009...

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    Sorry, didn't want to read and run, I know that women have spotted and gone on to have perfectly healthy babies, brown blood is old blood so that's apparently good.

    I am so sorry for your losses, fx this one is sticky. :hugs:
     
  3. tickledpink3

    tickledpink3 Mommy to Olivia and Aubre

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    :dust: sending some sticky dust to you. I'm sorry to hear about your losses. I don't have an answer but didn't want to bypass your post. :hugs:
     
  4. bunnyg82

    bunnyg82 Mum to 2 gorgeous boys

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    I really hope everything works out for you - I have seen quite a few people that have bled quite a way through their pregnancy and were fine and I really hope this is the case for you.

    Hopefully they will be along to share their stories xx
     
  5. ladypotter

    ladypotter Three Girls!!!

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    Yes, I have had spotting since 6wks and still managing to be ok. At your stage, it could very well still be implantation spotting (which I have also had in some of my other pregnancies). All you can do is ask for an u/s and hope that all is ok at this point. I get by right now mainly waiting to see my babies each time. That's what keeps me together right now. Good luck!
     
  6. fordy

    fordy mummy of 5

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    i know i'm sticking my nose in lol but i had red blood at the start of my pregnancy (i was 5 weeks 6 days) and i bled again at 19 weeks as long as its not heavy or anything u will be fine and to say it could be just an implantation bleed......i had a miscarriage last yr and was extremely scared this time and thanks to my darling oh's pep talk, he had told me "if i wanted a miscarriage and kept thinking about it etc it will happen, but if i think positive and talk to bubs and get attached it wont happen" i know red or any blood is scarcy but keep being positive and be strong for ur little bean!!!
     
  7. TLosch

    TLosch Jaxson Kyle

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    Thanks everyone for your advice and kind words! I do feel a little better...day 2 no bleeding. Ultrasound is tomorrow..they say we might not see a heatbeat that it could be to soon. I just can't wait until this kid is in college so i can stop worrying :) I will report tomorrow after the u/s!!
     
  8. babybeemac

    babybeemac Well-Known Member

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    All the best for the ultrasound TLosch, keeping my fingers crossed for you! Positive thoughts, try to keep chilled out and happy.

    xxx
     
  9. Diggydog

    Diggydog 1 angel, Mummy & WTT

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    Fingers crossed for you hun xxx
     
  10. mightyspu

    mightyspu No life since Aug 2009...

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    gl for tomorrow. :hugs:
     
  11. lauraperrysan

    lauraperrysan Mummy of 2!! :)

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    if only this was true!!

    i hope you get good news tomorrow, i understand how you feel all too well xxx
     
  12. TLosch

    TLosch Jaxson Kyle

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    Thank you! This day can't possbily go any slower haha. My apt is at 2 p.m. tomorrow so I am sure the morning will drag on too :)
     
  13. Loki

    Loki Guest

    Listen, you cannot continue to claim "bad feelings," because they go a long long way. You are stronger than you think, and truth be told, spotting is normal. If its any help, know that I am praying for you to be OK, OK?!
     
  14. mommy-in-june

    mommy-in-june Bodhi's Mommy

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    Best of luck to you in the appt tomorrow - let us know how it goes! :hugs2:
     
  15. kathy khuz

    kathy khuz Well-Known Member

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    not to worry much.... i was having bleeding / spotting since week 5... had u/s @ 6w1d since the spotting didn't stop... can see the baby & HB... everything's fine... till now i'm still having spotting for few days, and then stop for few days, and it will come back... but baby growth is normal... good luck to you for tomorrow's scan...
     

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