Ashla
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I was at a function yesterday and the topic came around to whether I was having a boy or girl (my eldest is a boy) and when I said this one was also a boy, these are the comments I got:
"Two boys, you are going to be busy."
"Oh no, two boys, you are going to be exhausted."
I replied that I thought it would lovely for my eldest to have a brother and that hopefully they would be great friends. And someone else said:
"Yes, but you need to have a girl next, to balance things out."
and someone else said ominously,
"Yes, they are going to get into so much trouble together."
Arghhhh!!!
At first I told people I didn't know what I was having because I didn't want to hear their rude comments about two boys but that just meant they just told me how much they hoped I'd have a girl and that two boys would be awful.
I feel like saying to all these stupid people "I never imagined having even one boy. For as long as I've wanted a baby, I've wanted a girl. So can you please stop making me feel even worse about it?"
But of course you can't say that because then everyone tut tuts and tells you that you should be grateful to be having a healthy baby (which I am, of course).
I wish they'd all just leave me alone.
"Two boys, you are going to be busy."
"Oh no, two boys, you are going to be exhausted."
I replied that I thought it would lovely for my eldest to have a brother and that hopefully they would be great friends. And someone else said:
"Yes, but you need to have a girl next, to balance things out."
and someone else said ominously,
"Yes, they are going to get into so much trouble together."
Arghhhh!!!
At first I told people I didn't know what I was having because I didn't want to hear their rude comments about two boys but that just meant they just told me how much they hoped I'd have a girl and that two boys would be awful.
I feel like saying to all these stupid people "I never imagined having even one boy. For as long as I've wanted a baby, I've wanted a girl. So can you please stop making me feel even worse about it?"
But of course you can't say that because then everyone tut tuts and tells you that you should be grateful to be having a healthy baby (which I am, of course).
I wish they'd all just leave me alone.