so stressed

[youngmum2b]

Please dont judge me on what your about to read, i feel bad enough already!!!

I found out today that oh has basically stolen almost £200 from my bank to feed his fifa addiction, n he doesnt seem to find anything wrong with it.
That money was for lo to buy his cot n bouncer, my family want me to move back home cos its caused me to start smoking again :'( n my pregnancy has already been moved to meduim risk cos they dont think i'll make it to term.

I really dont know what to do.
I love him n always have, but this aint on.
I've told him i want all the money back n the ps3 gone or im going n he'll have next to nothing to do with his son, but i feel guilty saying it cos i dont want my son to grow up without his dad around like i did, i know i'll be able to cope on my own n i'll have all the support i need from my family.

Please someone give me some form of advice, all these feelings n decions r breaking me.

 

[his.baby.mama]

I would make my OH do whatever he had to do to put that money back. My OH plays Xbox and if he wants to buy something he makes sure he uses his own money. Like to me he's stealing from his child. Using the money you were gunna use to help your child with things, and he used it for a game! That's ridiculous. I would be so mad I wouldn't even know where to start! I would seriously change my account and make him pay the money back. I think what he did is a childish and selfish thing! I'm sorry he's putting you through all this!

 

[vpeterman720]

First off, I'm not judging you. Things get hard and its been to the point where I want to pick up a cigarette too. I think what your OH did was horrible and I would say exactly what you did if not just left. He's not think of y'alls baby and that should be his number 1 priority. You should move in with your family IMO

 

[billy2mm]

i would sell the computer hun. he needs to learn that his needs no longer come first!

 

[youngmum2b]

Thanks everyone.

He picked me n bubs, but he dont wana sell the ps3 his words were im making it out to seem like he was having an affair.

Apparently im being stubborn,
Trying to control him or i must feel threatened by the ps3.

Hell yea i feel threatened by the fuking ps3 cos i dont want it to destroy something we've worked so hard at n im sick of having to defend myself against his family coa none of them can forget whats happened in the past.

 

[mayb_baby]

Im gobbsmacked and don't know what to say hunn
Make sure he replaces it all or else smash the PS3

xx

 

[youngmum2b]

Im gobbsmacked and don't know what to say hunn
Make sure he replaces it all or else smash the PS3

xx

Funny enough thats what i told him, the ps3 is also to be boxed up n he has to earn + ask for time on it.

 

[17thy]

SELL THE PS3!
Sell anything of his that you need to to get that money back. That is exactly what I would do if my OH did anything like that. How irresponsible of him!

 

[mayb_baby]

Im gobbsmacked and don't know what to say hunn
Make sure he replaces it all or else smash the PS3

xx

Funny enough thats what i told him, the ps3 is also to be boxed up n he has to earn + ask for time on it.

Yup your money so its yours now xxx

 

[youngmum2b]

Im gobbsmacked and don't know what to say hunn
Make sure he replaces it all or else smash the PS3

xx

Funny enough thats what i told him, the ps3 is also to be boxed up n he has to earn + ask for time on it.

Yup your money so its yours now xxx

Yup i said he can have it back once i have my money back, which should be by end of next week, but hes still gota ask 2 play it

 

[sequeena]

Go. He has taken that money that was meant for your child. Addiction or not that's not right! He's not even willing to sell the PS3 which at the end of the day is a lump of plastic and metal. It's not vital, it's not something he, you or the baby needs. If he's not even prepared to sell it, pay you back and work things out then what is the point?

You do not need this stress especially since it's caused you to start smoking again. It'll be hard but you need to think about your baby.

 

[youngmum2b]

He is payin me back, but i have full control of the ps3 cos asmuch as i hate it right now i actually enjoy playin a few games on it when i have the time.

 

[bethx]

babe you need to reel your man in ! By doing that little stunt he has proved to your how irrisponsible and immature he can be. Take things into your own hands and take control of everything, money etc. Make it so your incharge and he cant do that again it could be money for rent next time! I hope things go ok from now on. x