I am listening to what he says since we are going to start using protection again from this month, and i'm willing to use it. I just don't want it to be me stopping it as it feels wrong to me. I'm happy for him to use condoms, then it's his choice. Of course i would rather baby be born to two happy parents, but i also feel that in my heart he would be okay with it if it happened, he's pretty much said so. He'd just rather wait. Hence starting protection again. And i know that two years may not seem that long, but when i'm having a bad day it seems like forever. I'm sorry you're having problems and it may take longer for you. But there are also no guarantees it'll be smooth sailing when i do move over to ttc. I'm already seeing a GP about something that could mean potential problems.
Me too .. well, i mean, i FORGOT a few, so that's why I got pregnant. Katy, if you don't trust yourself to take every pill then don't go on it because you'd risk the chance of falling pregnant... but seeing as thats what you want.. haha. xx
I certainly would not suggest going on the pill if you don't want to, I wouldn't suggest that to anyone. The pill can seriously screw up your cycle and it doesn't seem particularly reliable really, especially if you are not completely devoted to taking it every day. I think, as I've said, that if you've been in charge of the contraception, it's only fair that it's his turn now. At least for a while.
Thanks everyone, hugs are very much appreciated. Feeling a bit crap. Especially since it looks like i'm going back on the pill now so is no hope of a happy accident
Ahh but there is pretend to take the pill, or convienently 'forget' a couple of days. Lol no I'm kidding not trying to teach anyone bad habits I'm sorry hun I think we should be WTT partners! xxx
Yeah we so should And lol, I've considered that before but i know i couldn't ever actually do it. Would feel way too guilty if anything did actually come of it!
Lol you could tell him on baby's 18th HAHA I am sitting here giggling to myself now, could imagine the look on my OH's face, let alone anyone elses
