Hello ladies I'm visinting from third tri, not wandered through BnB before!! Some advice if you wouldn't mind?? DH's son is 5y.o. He'll be 6 in Jan. His mum doesn't want him to grow up (only child and she's a single parent) and so he still sleeps in a nappy and has a dummy for bed. (Just don't get me started!) DH is working tomorrow eve so bed time will be my area, this will only be the second time he has slept at ours as we now have a spare room which is all his. (We usually have him for the day, every weekend, sometimes during the week also). I really REALLY don't want to put this child to bed in a sodding nappy and give him a dummy, I figure it'd be better for me to seem evil rather than DH and I'm fine with any upset etc, I have the speech prepared re him being such a big boy now and there being a waterproof sheet on the mattress. What do you think? Am I being harsh and should just let him carry on being a child or is it ok for us to have a different routine to his mother?