some people!!!!

[highhopes19]

im so easily annoyed nowdays its unreal .... i used to be the sort of person who would let these sorts of things go over my head .

first!!! i was queing at the cash point at morrisons, i was next in the que and this elderly couple just pushed me out the way to go infront of me!!!! wow!!! rudeness!!! .

and then my mood was calm and then my sister told me what a family friend mentioned to her yesterday and that just got me angry wtf is up me ....

they went out yesterday to london shopping, there was my mum, my sister, a good family friend and her daughter anyway.... .

my mum mentioned to her that in april were trying to get a group together to go to butlins for the weekend for my 21st, not to go out drinking but to to just get away for LO's first little break away aswell .
my mums friend went why dont we go to the adult weekend and obviously my mum said no probably not because of the baby.....

and then my mums friend then went on to tell my mum that im being over the top and over protective and should leave her with someone for the weekend and go with out her .
i dont wanna leave my 5month old daughter and go away drinking i wanted this to be her little holiday aswell whats wrong with that .

i know im being silly and should ignore her and others comments.... im first time mummy and i thought i was doing the right thing....OH would go mad a that suggestion of hers .

i was looking foward to having my baby there for my birthday.... so what if its my 21st, im a mother first and going out comes second surely thats the right attitude to have .... i was looking forward to going but now i feel like i just want it to be me, OH, bubba and my family as i feel like im being a burden on the rest for wanting my daughter there

sorry for my moan

xxxx

xxx

 

[Catwiffy]

I think you have the right attitude! Ignore the silly woman, it's none of her business at the end of the day! It's your birthday, your life therefore your choice!x

 

[highhopes19]

I think you have the right attitude! Ignore the silly woman, it's none of her business at the end of the day! It's your birthday, your life therefore your choice!x

thankyou x

thats what i thought....surely when your invited some where you cant dictate who can and can't come .... i mean shes a foster carer looks after a ton of kids all of which have behavioural issues , i wouldnt dream of going to her "oh dont bring them". infact i would fully expect them all to come and i would certainly not have a problem with it

xxx

 

[Catwiffy]

Some people have their priorities all mixed up. I think it's really nice, and right, that you want to include your little one! Why would you want to leave baby at home so young unless you had to?
Like I said, just ignore her. Some people have very strange ideas!!!xxx

 

[lanaloo]

This happened to me. Not exactly the same but it was my 21st last week and I wasn't sure what to do because obviously I was 30 odd weeks pregnant, not that I would of gone on a wild one drinking if i wasn't pregnant but anyway....my mum was pestering and pestering me about going round to hers and getting a few people round (I didn't even think they would be drinking tbh) in the end I felt abit crap about it but ended up spending half the day travelling to hers and then the rest of the day sat at her house while her and her friends got drunk!! None of my friends turned up.

So my advice is...YOU decide what you want to do and let THEM know. It's your 21st, if they don't like it then tough. Don't end up like me sat in the corner having a crap day while everyone else gets to enjoy your birthday!! xxx

 

[BrieAnne]

I'm sorry to hear that this woman is getting you upset. You are absolutely making the right decision by wanting to spend your birthday with your LO. Being a mom should always come first and I for one am proud of you for not just wanting to leave LO with someone to go drinking and have fun for the weekend! It's easy for other people to make comments like that because it doesn't mean the same to them as it does to you. They are just being selfish. You are being a great, responsible mom wanting to spend time with your LO! Besides, you're not being a burden if they are all going out for your birthday, they should respect your wishes on your day Have fun knowing you're doing the best thing for your daughter by spending time with her and your family!