laurenbenee
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I was raped in July by someone whom I had just met a few days earlier. We had gone out and talked and he never brought up sex. Then we hung out one night and he raped me.I told him only to kiss me,which he did at first, but he started fingering me i tried to make him stop and told him to stop and that it hurt,but he said that it didnt hurt that bad and continued. I told him that if he was going to do this that he needed to use a condom which he did but he got tired of me fighting him off me and eventually gave up and drove me home. I have now find out that he has has been indicted for sexual battery in the past, some time when he was in middle school.( I was also molested by two family members as a child but thats besides the point.) I just graduated highschool(18) and hes 20. After the rape i guess i was frazzled and decided to start back talking to my ex, a ex i told my priest that I would never talk to again. He left me last year after a condom breakage. He bought me the morning after pill and waited for me to get my period and when i got it he completely cut me off. two weeks later he tried to get back but i was so done and hurt i couldnt even talk to him or look at him. Baclk to the story, Two days after the rape my ex and i had sex, he just stuck it in without a condom and i didnt ask him to use one. He pulled out but said that i definitely needed to get the plan b. Something in my brain told me that i wanted be a mother. i just want someone to love me, and so i didnt get the plan b. Now im obsessed with getting pregnant. Hopefully im pregnant now. We had sex again a couple times on August 2 and he didnt pull out any. i got my period august 4 and it was very light and one day shorter than usual. I have been having heartburn, gas, night sweats, hot flashes in AC, hungry( usual on and a few days after my period i have no appetite but im eating everything!), have gained three pounds( im skinny and have been trying to gain wait my whole life so its very strange for me ive never been past 110 and now im 113), extremely fatigued(im in bed by like 9:30 while all my college friends are out partying, i also take multiple naps throughout the day), I've taken tests and they have come back negative so maybe im thinking all these things in my head. I got my next period Aug 30 but it was a bit more heavy and more cramps but now its like tapering off and is tuning brownish red. Im not even filling a whole tampon.But i cant help but shake the feeling that im pregnant. I've even prayed to be pregnant. I've read stories about women who have had periods or light periods while they are pregnant and it gives me hope. Havent seen or talked to my ex since August 15 he was just using me anyways, he never wanted to take me out or talk on the phone only sex, plus hes in college in a diff state and im in college myself. If i really am not pregnant i will have to find a new person to try with which i really dont want to please pray for me guys