Someone feel free to Slap me in the Face!!

[my1stbump]

Feel like I need to let this out....

The emotion and grieve that comes with having a MC is slowly making me soooo sad..

I have days after days when I feel perfectly fine and its like nothing has ever happened, but then I have a small moment where I could just curl up and cry till all my tears have dried up

Today is one of those days... I was perfectly fine untill I heard that a friend has just had her baby! And it made me realise that I would have been 17wks now.. and looking forward to my next scan.

The next three days should be the most exciting days for me... and I need to snap out of feeling like this.

Its my little Boy's 3rd birthday tomorrow and my little girls 2nd on Saturday and we are having a party on Sunday for them!!

I am soooo excited but yet also feeling Sad... hope the HAPPY emotion takes over!

Sorry for the moan

 

[greenpear]

It's terrible to lose a baby - doesn't matter what gestation age, and I think it will be a while before one can move on and stop thinking about how old the baby would be, or how along you would be if only it didn't happen.

You don't need a slap - you need a big hug!

 

[mummy2be123]

I agree you dont need a slap and I am so sorry for your loss

I only had my miscarriage 2 days ago but I feel ok one minute then the next I am absolutely crying I wanted my baby so badly and its so horrible I was so excited ..my little boy was going be a big brother etc its horrible.

If you ever need anyone to talk to feel free to pm me xx

 

[SabrinaKat]

I'm sorry for your loss...

I had an m/c two years ago (Aug 2009) at 7-8 wks, and am now pregnant again (am 17wks, I see the same as you 'would have been'), but I still think about the lost baby, he/she would have been two years a few weeks after this baby hopefully arrives; so how you feel is normal.

best wishes!