...this is a couple weeks back and its started playing up on my mind again as LO will be starting nursery soon....after your opioions girls... I was going on a course at our local Sure Start and LO was at the creche there for 2 hours with staff we were familiar with. We had a weeks break due to the school break and LO started napping earlier so when we did resume the creche and my course it was running during her nap time. I had tried to put her to sleep in the sroller before we got there but she stayed awake and was so crancky there. Whilst I was upstairs on the course LO was down in the creche and various of my course buddies were being called downstairs by the creche when their LO's were playing up and not settling. They then called me and this was the first time since I had started using the creche but when I went down and peeped she was being held by one of the staff and they were singing. LO wasnt crying so I didnt disturb and went back up. At the end of the session, I went to pick her up and was suprised to see she was just standing by herself all alone and bawling her eyes out. I went to her and picked her up and she continued crying and also very distressed about her 'minnie' bag which was chucked somewhere in the middle of the room. I went to one of the staff and they just said she hadnt been herself and she just wanted to be carried. I felt so guilty and needless to say didnt go back after but do keep thinking if I should have said/done something at the time. I know they were having a hard time as all the kids were playing up but to think that LO was just crying on her own and she was left to stand there for god knows how long breaks my heart. Do you think im just being sensitive??