wtbmummy
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Ok so last night I had to start my new pill pack. I told dh it was my last packet. He asked if I was going to get anymore so I said its something we need to decide. Last time we were wtt I came off the pill in Feb n we tried first time in May so that my body could regulate. Then he asked if I was going to take this packet if I want toget my body back to normal. I said well we dont have any condoms atm so I take this packet n we can get some. (And took it)
He then admitted he doesn't really want to use condoms. I said well there are two other options "pulling out" and "charting" he said no way could he pull out but he was intrested in the charting as an option.
We havent even decided if we will be having no.2 yet so all this has kind of thrown me. Dh knows I do want no.2 REALLY bad and addmited he thinks about it everyday (so it is obviously just as important to him, and he said he cant see any downsides really, just money n added stresses)
The closer we get the more we are both doing to enhance our chances of a healthy pregnancy. I think dh wants to but kind of doesn't want to "try". But is willing to avoid dtd around fertile time "for now" I guess when he knows for sure he would just say to dtd even around fertile time.
That brings me to my question.....
Who out there does charting? How do I do it? Does anyone have a good easy way to get started?
He then admitted he doesn't really want to use condoms. I said well there are two other options "pulling out" and "charting" he said no way could he pull out but he was intrested in the charting as an option.
We havent even decided if we will be having no.2 yet so all this has kind of thrown me. Dh knows I do want no.2 REALLY bad and addmited he thinks about it everyday (so it is obviously just as important to him, and he said he cant see any downsides really, just money n added stresses)
The closer we get the more we are both doing to enhance our chances of a healthy pregnancy. I think dh wants to but kind of doesn't want to "try". But is willing to avoid dtd around fertile time "for now" I guess when he knows for sure he would just say to dtd even around fertile time.
That brings me to my question.....
Who out there does charting? How do I do it? Does anyone have a good easy way to get started?