Harlot I have had dreams were I dreamt I was pregnant but turned out I wasn't I think it was just the feeling of wanting the baby so bad lol. BUT a month ago I dreamt that my sister got married and I could see her and her husband taking wedding pictures and she had a little bump on her belly. I woke up and I had to text my mom and I said :" Sis is pregnant right?" And she confirmed she was 3 months along. So for me it was my sister expecting😉
Do you have any advice for how I could put it out for my hubby to talk to him about me wanting one last bean? I have told him many times that I really want one last one and I feel I don't get anywhere with my talk about it..?
I really don't have any good arguments I guess
hmm , think ill have to take a back seat and see what happens
Ill tell you what i spoke to mike about , so hopefully its of some use to you , im not really sure on what else could help, so my experience :
when i spoke to mike about it i asked him what his thoughts were on it , how come he felt like he wanted to wait , if there was anything else that was bothering him to why he was against it , after we spoke about all that i asked if maybe he could consider trying in august after his sisters wedding and he agreed to think about it , i didnt slowly bring it into conversations just asked him out right .
Before i asked though i did sit and look at my finances and what i could afford to put away each month and how much id have left over ect so maybe if you look into your finances ect first and see what sort of money you are looking at after paying monthly bills ect , really think about how to word 'i want a baby and i want one now' aha i did say this to my other half and his face was priceless but anyway so after you've looked into those things and had a think at least you will be prepared for it if he asks and the only other thing i can honestly think of is butter him up before hand like cook his favourite dinner,send him for a relaxing bath ect so he knows you want something but i do think the key factor in it is to stay calm , keep a smile on your face and try and treat it like a general discussion ,try not to get worked up if the conversation takes a negative turn, it worked wonders for me because it shows your trying to compromise.
Put your side across to why you want another child , mine was so i could go back to work and focus on my career with out having to leave again to have another child and that we would be more financially worse off if we did it like that . So if your not working at the moment then maybe you could use something like that if you wanted to go back after having another baby . I think thats everything that i done and it did help alot .
I know its horrible having to agree to wait but its worth it , i hope this helps , most men start feeling better about it when they are asked their thoughts and feelings on it and if there is any reasons at least you can work through them together
Hope the talk goes well for you
xx
p.s the talk i had took over 4 hours :O so expect a lengthy chat