Soooo Pissed Off right now :(

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  1. Becci_Boo86

    Becci_Boo86 Well-Known Member

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    Well today would have been my little girls first birthday and i wasnt in the best mood i'm really upset.

    I went to work cos i thought this would be the best thing really.

    I got to work and one of the girls says oh y the long sad face.

    I explained that it was my little girls birthday and i lost her early on.

    She then goes but how the hell did u know she was a girl it wasnt even formed then!!

    i was like what the hell!!

    I said well i know that i was having a girl i had this feeling inside.

    I said have u ever lost a child she says NO

    so i say said well then shut the hell up if u have no idea what i'm going through!!!!

    It hurts so much!!! she was talking with all the other girls about me! i'm standing there thinking i know what ur saying!!!

    today was hard enough and then for that!!! she has known for ages that her name was Daisy and that i always say i had a daughter so y be such a cow on the day when i need to be left alone and not have 2 answer any questions like that

    :( :( :cry:
     
  2. babydream

    babydream ttc#2

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    What an inconsiderate cow!!!! Sorry hunni, must be an emotional day, people who never had to go through this don't know what it feels like. Hope you're okay xxxhugsxxx
     
  3. kjean

    kjean Pregnant

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    No one understands the love of a ttc mommy to be, keep your head up don't let them bring you down!xo
     
  4. GettingBroody

    GettingBroody 😊 Mum 😊

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    Aw :hugs: honey, that's awful. Some peole are so insensitive :growlmad:
     
  5. zoe6660

    zoe6660 Well-Known Member

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  6. PixiedustLove

    PixiedustLove Well-Known Member

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    :cry: I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. Some women can be so cruel. I've been through the same thing, and the only advice I can give you is to ignore the cows as much as you can and take comfort in the ones that are truly your friends. :hugs: All the women here are supportive, and you can vent all you need to.
     
  7. KNWilson

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    I'm sorry about your loss and that you have to deal with ignorance like that. Sometimes people just don't know when to keep their mouth shut. I hope your day gets better hun!! :hugs2:
     
  8. arpeters

    arpeters Well-Known Member

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    omg! What a horrible and heartless thing to say! I don't even know what to say! I am glad you talked crap back to her. I am so sorry that you have to deal with stupid people on such a sad say. Here are some hugs for you. :hugs::hugs::hugs::hugs:.
     
  9. katertots

    katertots Well-Known Member

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    How old was this person?
     
  10. angelgirl86

    angelgirl86 Well-Known Member

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    So sorry you had to deal with someone like that, some people just have no respect orr consideration for others. I'm sorry to hear of your loss as well :hugs:, some people just don't understand.
     
  11. Becci_Boo86

    Becci_Boo86 Well-Known Member

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    She is 35 and has 3 children which is what shocked me the most really.

    I'm trying not to let her get to me but its really hard!!!

    xx
     
  12. PixiedustLove

    PixiedustLove Well-Known Member

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    I've realized that even women with children don't know what it's like to suffer a loss. No one understands until they've been through it. :( Her ignorance and lack of compassion is appaulling, but those are her shortcomings. You're obviously a more empathetic and better woman. :flower:
     
  13. katertots

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    Agreed keep your head up!
     

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