UPDATE -
So I saw the midwife this afternoon. This was my 3rd appointment so far this pregnancy, and the 3rd different midwife I have seen. Its a nightmare, just so typical of the NHS these days. How Im ever meant to build a relationship and get to speak to someone who knows my history, is just impossible. So anyway, as it turned out, this midwife there today was a retired supervisor of midwives who was covering, so she actually gave some pretty good advice.
She couldnt believe how Ive been treated, and gave me the name and number of who to ring if I want to complain. She also told me how to get refered to another hospital. But best of all, shes given me the number of the consultant who looked after me with my son. He was the person who personally made all those promises to me, so Im going to phone tomorrow to ask to see him. Hopefully he will have something constructive to say, and maybe scan me again.
Regardless of what he says though, i think i am going to still transfer to the other hospital as I just dont trust them up there now.