hey, i'm the same too, have a soft sleep bra i got for my forst pregnancy, it was either from toys r us or mothercare but only 10 quid-so woth the comfort at night!!! also, i wanted to get a body sleep pillow thing that goes down the legth of your body as you sleep,went to ikea and they've got these childrens long cushions for a fiver, it did just the trick and i put the 30pounds i saved towards some beautiful cothes when my daughter was born. hope this helps you xxxx