I m/c around a week ago now i think, sorry my head is all over the place for dates and times but DH and i had sex for the first time since m/c and i was in a lot of pain inside during BD is this normal xx
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I had a miscarriage five days ago now, and I am scared to death to resume having sex. I don't know from personal experience, but I wouldn't think sex should hurt. Do you think maybe it is because you weren't very interested because of what you just went through? Maybe your body wasn't relaxing very well. I know if I am not in the mood, things down there just don't feel very good. Know what I mean? I have to say, for me personally, it will be very hard- emotionally- to have sex again. I am much more nervous about it this time than I was after having a vaginal delivery. Definitely talk to your doctor about it, but maybe next time you should wait for a while until you have had ample time to heal emotionally, physically and mentally. Again, I am so sorry for your loss. Please don't hesitate to contact me anytime if you would like to talk.
Ummmm hun i really hope there isnt a next time... it could be that your cervix wasnt back to normal? i know my cervix was REALLY sensitive after and any how to put this stenuous sex hurt or too deep of sex try controlling it your self if you know what i mean this helped me alot... I am really sorry for your loss hun PM me if you need anything
So sorry t'elle We've BD a few times since & the first couple of tries were painful if he bumped my cervix, same as when I was pg (sorry for tmi!) Now it's been a while it doesnt seem to hurt at all any more xx
when i m/c i felt "wrong" down there, and tried have sex and ended up crying it hurt so much, it cause i didnt feel ready to have sex again. hope that helps x sorry for ur loss xx
I agree with broody. If you're not quite ready emotionally, you might find that your body responds by you feeling physical pain. After our first miscarriage, I felt just like this, but after the second miscarriage I felt much more ready to start having sex again almost right away. Give yourself a little bit longer to deal with the emotional pain and then try again. If it is really worrying you, perhaps you should talk it over with your doctor.
