sorry ladies~ just a rant

[lilfrog01]

i am soooo angry/jealous right now...
i just found out that my cousin who is only 19 is now pregnant with her 4th, yes 4TH child... her oldest one is barely a year old and the twins were just born about 4 months ago... .

it makes me soo knowing that i try and try every month and nothing and here she is posting on fb about how she didnt know how babies were made until she got pregnant with her 4th.. why is life sooo unfair?? i'm only asking for one more and she didnt ask for any and now has 4... she didnt even have to try... uggghhhh

sorry ladies~ rant over. had to get it out somewhere and couldnt do it on fb.. sorry if i acted like a little !

 

[kelsey111]

blimy! thats young to have 4 kids hope she's got alot of saport i get like that start being so jelouse of people that have kids and can get pregnant soo easy! x

 

[lilfrog01]

she has her husband (who isnt much older,) but depends mostly on her mom and dad to help with the kids. she is still in a party mood and so my aunt watchs the kids alot for her to go out. and now she's adding another one for my aunt and uncle to take care of?? . her husband works but she doesnt.. who knows. i just hope she can handle it all.

 

[mummy3]

she's going to have her hands full!!

It's hard hun but try not to let it get you down.

 

[mtemptress]

ooooh id want to deck her one if that was the case but all you can do i suppose is just be pleased for em even if on the inside it is killing you, my hubbys cousin and our good mate are due in oct/nov and i am pleased but wish it was me lol
keep your chin up hun

 

[Feemee]

nope its not fair!! My sister is due her 3rd in Nov as much as im happy for them too like mtemptress wish it was me!

xx

 

[LaRockera]

I understand this may be getting to you, hon. Some people are struggling for months, while some just blink and they're pregnant. But that's the way it is, and we need to try our best to focus on us, our families, our lives. At least you can look at your two children and go, hell I did it already twice, I'll do it again. But there are so many members in this forum, myself included, that are anticipating, stressing, agitating, suffering, longing badly for our first.

 

[lintu]

I understand totally huni, life can be so cruel.

I'm having a little melt down with myself today, I have just found out that a friend is pregnant again, this girl has had more abortions that I have had hot dinners and oh the joy she's decided to keep this one.

It makes my blood boil, here I am eating healthy, taking all these supplements, hoping and preying every mth for that elusive little line and she only has to have a bloke (any bloke might i add) sneeze in her vicinity and shes pregnant. God I hate feeling like this

But you just gotta keep on plodding