Does anybody live with a roommate or someone you don't get along with? If so, how do you deal with it!! Our roommate does soooo much that just drives me CRAZY! 1. He NEVER cleans up after himself, I'll clean the whole house, go to bed, wake up, and looks like I never touched it. 2. He doesn't help out with taking the trash out, dishes, groceries (he only buys for himself), etc 3. He neglects his dog and expects me and my OH to take care of her and when his dog is outside and its muddy he'll let her inside and he lets her jump all over the couhces me and OH paid for on our own!. 4. His Girlfriend will come in and eat our food, dirty the house up, use our stuff, leave lights on, etc etc, when our roommate isn't home. (basically she acts like she lives there and she doesn't) 5. His girlfriend is so rude to me and when I make everyone dinner she picks at it, doesn't say thank you, and then decided to rummage through our pantry and eat something else. 6. We always buy groceries for everyone and when we order pizza we always offer them some but when they order pizza our roommate's gf decided to label all of her food. 7. She messes with my things like the "Bill Calender" where we put all the bills, when they are due, how much they are, and who paid what etc. She erases everything and draws on it. 8. They both take my laundry and either throw it on top of the dryer where half of it falls in the dusy back or throws it on the ground. CLEAN CLOTHES. on the ground. It's one thing to touch my panties and bras but to throw them on the ground is rude. I have no idea what to do because OH never talks to our roommate because he says he shouldn't have to babysit him and that i shouldn't clean up after them but I have to cuz otherwise it wont get done and i hate messiness!! and I'm the kind of person that is really really shy and hates confrontation and the last time I said how I felt towards them I got bashed and hurt from them and just gave up. I don't know what to do, I'm so upset because I'm fed up with it all!!!