Sounds bad but its true

[emlubu]

Basically since the ex has said no to contact centre we r waiting for court so he decided not to see her or have contact at all till court but the last two weeks she hasn't seen or spoke to him she has slept through the night and is sooooo more settled with her sleep. Before she was getting up loads in the night and into me... But last 5 nights she has slept 11 - 12 hours sounds bad but it's doing her good not actually seeing him.

 

[LTEx]

Doesnt sound bad at all hun just shows what kids pick up on doesnt? Maybe she was picking up on the stress or the atmosphere when he was there? Least she seems more settled i'd make a note of it & anything else that changes just in case you want to take it with you when it reaches court x

 

[dustbunny]

I think that says it all and what situation suits her best. It is not bad at all and don't feel bad for saying it. Some men are a major waste of space and don't see how their selfish actions affect their children. I really still can not see how men can walk in and out of their childrens lives with the support of the courts, its fathers for justice gone mad!!!!

 

[emlubu]

Thx guys

 

[Laura2919]

I'd keep a note of it and mention it in court.

 

[Crumbsx]

WSS^
It is sad it just shows how things do affect children, and it comes out in different ways.
Definately make a note of all the little things like this and mention them in court. The fact is, it's not so much what's best for you or FOB. It's what's best for LO, and this doesn't sound like it's benefiting LO.
How old is LO?

 

[Laura2919]

I agree. Lots of people think it hasn't affected their children but it shows itself in other ways

 

[emlubu]

She is just 2... Turned 2 at Christmas. It does show how
It effects our children... All this has been up in the air since she was about 16 months

 

[Crumbsx]

Aw bless her so shes aware of her surroundings and relationships with other people then. She will know your her mummy and she will probably feel unsettled when he's in her life as she doesn't really understand what's going on?

It's awful it's been going on so long I hope things get sorted for you both.

 

[emlubu]

We are awaiting court I believe.