bunnyg82
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So, I started spotting tonight, not a lot but it was there when I wiped and so after looking at my notes and stuff it said to phone the maternity unit.
I phoned them and they said to phone the out of hours docs, which I did and went down there. My god they are useless
It went something like this:
Doc: how many days pregnant are you?
Me: I am 9 weeks pregnant
Doc: did you take a pregnancy test?!
Me: yes, I took a test and I am 9 weeks pregnant!
Grrr not the best start - so anyway, went on to tell him that I have had spotting, that it's not much, etc etc. Loads of poking and prodding. He took my blood pressure and it was high and he said are you anxious - umm what do you think you idiot!? FFS!!!
Anyway, more poking, he also got his stethoscope out asked me to stand up and started putting it on my upper belly through my t-shirt! I'm thinking, the baby isn't there you idiot! It's still in the pelvic area. Feeling no confidence in this guy at all by this point!
Then he said basically there is three scenarios here - either it's a threatened miscarriage, an ectopic pregnancy or if the bleeding gets heavier then it's an "abortion" - nice word, thanks very much! So I am feeling great by now. Now although I know that these things are a possibility I also know that spotting can be normal too and he didn't even mention this. In fact before the maternity unit told me to phone the gp's she said she wanted to reassure me to say this is quite common at 9 weeks because it's this stage of pregnancy that the placenta attaches itself.
Then he said he wanted a second opinion so waited for another doctor. The other doctor basically said the same thing although was nicer and they said we'd just have to wait and see and there's nothing we can do about it is if its a miscarriage. So this is the point I start to well up
I have been told I have to rest. He asked if I was going to work tomorrow and when I said yes, he said "don't", rest lots and basically that I can sign myself off for a week! I feel like such a fraud doing that, but obviously dont want to put my little bean at risk.
Also, the first doc said he'd sort me out with a scan and then at the end when I asked, he said my gp would have to do that.
I feel in such limbo now
I phoned them and they said to phone the out of hours docs, which I did and went down there. My god they are useless
It went something like this:
Doc: how many days pregnant are you?
Me: I am 9 weeks pregnant
Doc: did you take a pregnancy test?!
Me: yes, I took a test and I am 9 weeks pregnant!
Grrr not the best start - so anyway, went on to tell him that I have had spotting, that it's not much, etc etc. Loads of poking and prodding. He took my blood pressure and it was high and he said are you anxious - umm what do you think you idiot!? FFS!!!
Anyway, more poking, he also got his stethoscope out asked me to stand up and started putting it on my upper belly through my t-shirt! I'm thinking, the baby isn't there you idiot! It's still in the pelvic area. Feeling no confidence in this guy at all by this point!
Then he said basically there is three scenarios here - either it's a threatened miscarriage, an ectopic pregnancy or if the bleeding gets heavier then it's an "abortion" - nice word, thanks very much! So I am feeling great by now. Now although I know that these things are a possibility I also know that spotting can be normal too and he didn't even mention this. In fact before the maternity unit told me to phone the gp's she said she wanted to reassure me to say this is quite common at 9 weeks because it's this stage of pregnancy that the placenta attaches itself.
Then he said he wanted a second opinion so waited for another doctor. The other doctor basically said the same thing although was nicer and they said we'd just have to wait and see and there's nothing we can do about it is if its a miscarriage. So this is the point I start to well up
I have been told I have to rest. He asked if I was going to work tomorrow and when I said yes, he said "don't", rest lots and basically that I can sign myself off for a week! I feel like such a fraud doing that, but obviously dont want to put my little bean at risk.
Also, the first doc said he'd sort me out with a scan and then at the end when I asked, he said my gp would have to do that.
I feel in such limbo now