sweetthang24
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You are all probably going to think i'm nuts but i think even getting this onto paper will help me.
Ok, so we've all had really crazy dreams since we've been pregnant right? my first one started with me trying to unlock my car with a snake, and i never found out if i could or not because i woke up...............
But have you had a crazy reacurring dream?
First of all i have to say, i love my other half to bits and although we had issues at the beginning of our relationship, i trust him implicitly and my sister is my best friend.
Maybe i should give you some background first otherwise this isn't going to make sense.
My sister has recently come out of a 10 year relationship(her choice) where she was very constricted and i slowly watched her become a stepford wife, which i know she's not. She's 29 (4 years older than me) and we're best friends. she lives bout 2 hours from me and the whole family and when she broke up with her ex she stayed in that town due to work.
She started getting back into the swing of things and let loose a bit, alcohol, men because she had been constricted for years.
I didn't judge her and understood her need to do it.
She started coming up to see us alot and she'd get really drunk and loud and hang off my OH.
Maybe because of my new 'sensible mother head' i couldn't tolerate it and told her to calm down.
She started txting him about football, a new love, and i finally told my OH i didn't think it was appropriate and asked him to stop txting her back, which he did. She's now in a relationship with a new man and she's happy and settled.
sorry gone off track............... anywhoooo, since ive been pregnant ive been having these gut wrenching dreams.
Its always based around the same idea but the location and situation are different.
The dreams always end up with her stealing my OH away from me.
Ive had this dream so many times and its really upsetting. With my hormones being all over the place as well it makes it worse. I cry hysterically in my dreams and i wake up feeling cold and empty.
Ive told my OH the basics of my dreams and its always the same answer 'it's only a dream'
i know its only a dream but it's starting to affect how i feel about my sister - crazy i know, but i just can't shake it.
that sounds crazy right?
sorry its soo long. xx
Ok, so we've all had really crazy dreams since we've been pregnant right? my first one started with me trying to unlock my car with a snake, and i never found out if i could or not because i woke up...............
But have you had a crazy reacurring dream?
First of all i have to say, i love my other half to bits and although we had issues at the beginning of our relationship, i trust him implicitly and my sister is my best friend.
Maybe i should give you some background first otherwise this isn't going to make sense.
My sister has recently come out of a 10 year relationship(her choice) where she was very constricted and i slowly watched her become a stepford wife, which i know she's not. She's 29 (4 years older than me) and we're best friends. she lives bout 2 hours from me and the whole family and when she broke up with her ex she stayed in that town due to work.
She started getting back into the swing of things and let loose a bit, alcohol, men because she had been constricted for years.
I didn't judge her and understood her need to do it.
She started coming up to see us alot and she'd get really drunk and loud and hang off my OH.
Maybe because of my new 'sensible mother head' i couldn't tolerate it and told her to calm down.
She started txting him about football, a new love, and i finally told my OH i didn't think it was appropriate and asked him to stop txting her back, which he did. She's now in a relationship with a new man and she's happy and settled.
sorry gone off track............... anywhoooo, since ive been pregnant ive been having these gut wrenching dreams.
Its always based around the same idea but the location and situation are different.
The dreams always end up with her stealing my OH away from me.
- she told him i'd died and convinced him he loved her
- she ruined my wedding day with him and he left me for her
- She makes things up, tells OH and he leaves me to be with her
Ive had this dream so many times and its really upsetting. With my hormones being all over the place as well it makes it worse. I cry hysterically in my dreams and i wake up feeling cold and empty.
Ive told my OH the basics of my dreams and its always the same answer 'it's only a dream'
i know its only a dream but it's starting to affect how i feel about my sister - crazy i know, but i just can't shake it.
that sounds crazy right?
sorry its soo long. xx
or driving into OUR drive together, him just totally and completely ignoring me whilst with someone else... it was awful!! i can't tell you how many mornings those dreams got me off on the wrong foot... and OH was so good to me, telling me he's never going to leave or that he's not going anywhere and on and on.... it was tough!! 
