She thinks she is sooo great because she became a teen mom when she was 16 Anyways, when she found out that I'm pregnant she all of a sudden jumped back into my life. At first it was nice, I was only 8 weeks along and she had some helpful advice. But now, she is controlling, and condemning. She doesn't like my birth plan, she she keeps trying to change it. She keeps giving me her used baby girl clothes.. and they are crap! Stained and ripped. I would never use them, also I keep telling her I don't think I'm having a girl. She got pissed off at me for buying a brand new stroller because I could have had hers... it's nasty. I would never use it. Now she went ahead and put a post in an online "mom's shop and swap" Facebook group. She told me it was for me. Like WTF. I don't need her help! I have almost everything we need. We have saved up all our money to get all new stuff, because that is what I wanted. She does this to EVERY pregnant girl on Facebook. She is only a few months older, but so much more immature.. "looking to get some gently used baby stuff for free anything you know you can't sell just PM me i have a few friends that are expecting and they are young so id like to be able to help them out as much as i can " How would you guys deal with this?