vitriolic_vix
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So just had the Hv here for baby 3 month check and now I feel like such a rubbish mum
My LO refuses to be put down during the day to nap although she is getting better at going down on a playmat for 5/10 minutes which she refused even a week ago. Apparently I'm a bad mother for not letting her cry it out when I put her down to nap. She basically said if she's fed and watered etc let her cry and if she gets really upset ( which she really does) to do pick up put down and she will eventually get the point! She said even if she's going down at night I'm making a rod for my own back by pandering to her?! I just want to comfort her when she's sad and was letting her figure it out on her own - now I'm questioning myself!
She thinks I have PND because I'm tired and frustrated at my husband :/
And now says when it comes to weaning I should do baby led weaning because purees are bad for them??
As for her weight she went from 10.7 at 8 weeks to 12.5 today and it's too much?!!
Feel so rubbish now and like everything I'm doing or was considering is wrong
My LO refuses to be put down during the day to nap although she is getting better at going down on a playmat for 5/10 minutes which she refused even a week ago. Apparently I'm a bad mother for not letting her cry it out when I put her down to nap. She basically said if she's fed and watered etc let her cry and if she gets really upset ( which she really does) to do pick up put down and she will eventually get the point! She said even if she's going down at night I'm making a rod for my own back by pandering to her?! I just want to comfort her when she's sad and was letting her figure it out on her own - now I'm questioning myself!
She thinks I have PND because I'm tired and frustrated at my husband :/
And now says when it comes to weaning I should do baby led weaning because purees are bad for them??
As for her weight she went from 10.7 at 8 weeks to 12.5 today and it's too much?!!
Feel so rubbish now and like everything I'm doing or was considering is wrong