Surprise BFP at 39 - feeling anxious

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  1. Rheaz

    Rheaz Well-Known Member

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    Hi all
    I turned 39 last week.
    Today I got a surprise BFP, despite taking the mini pill.
    I am full of anxiety.
    I actually don't even know where to start with all of my anxieties.
    I have a 8yo and a 5yo. I would love love love to chat to some "older" mummies who are also pregnant in this weird time (see: terrifying pandemic!) and might accept a buddy from Australia.
    xx
     
  2. Kiwiberry

    Kiwiberry Mommy to 3 miracles

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    Congratulations!! :)
     
  3. Bevziibubble

    Bevziibubble Well-Known Member
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    Congratulations :)
     
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  4. CC94

    CC94 Well-Known Member

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    Congrats!! <3
     
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  5. JessaBear36

    JessaBear36 Praying for a healthy Rainbow Baby

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  6. fluffpuffin

    fluffpuffin Well-Known Member

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    I'm newly pregnant. I have a 10 year old from a previous marriage. I'm turning 38 on Monday.

    Congratulations to you. Are you happy with the news or mostly shocked right now?
     
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  7. Rheaz

    Rheaz Well-Known Member

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    Hello love! I’m 6w1d. I’m not feeling much yet, which is making me anxious. You? I am happy. But scared! How are you?
     
  8. coral11680

    coral11680 mother of 3

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    Hey! I turned 40 in June and just found out yesterday I’m pregnant! I was in the pill and this was a shock. I have 3 older kids with my first husband. 19yr old girl, 16 yr old boy and 9yr old girl! I have a new partner now. We are both in shock! I’m excited but scared and very anxious!
    Louise x
     
  9. Bevziibubble

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    Congratulations!
     
  10. JAJuly2013

    JAJuly2013 Mom and Wife

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    Hello! Congratulations! I am 39 and expecting baby #4. I would love to be buddies, i'm in the US if that matters. I'm super excited but nervous too. I sure hope everything goes well - for both of us! Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months!
     
  11. lusterleaf

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    Hi and congratulations! I too just got my BFP and I have an 8 year old boy with special needs and a 5 year old girl, so I am very anxious as well, though it is a blessing.
     
  12. Suggerhoney

    Suggerhoney TTC our Rainbow baby ❤

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    Hi congratulations.
    I had my son at 39 and now im 40 nearly 41 and been ttc for almost 7 months.
    Came off the mini pill in February.
     
  13. babybears25

    babybears25 TTC #4

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    Congratulations!
     

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