Hi ladies, I just wanted to post on TTC because when I first joined I had so many questions, worries and concerns and never heard back from the ladies with BFP after the BFP post. Very brief history: My DB and I have been ttc for almost 3yrs. The longest 3 years EVER!!!! One ectopic and one miscarrage. The rest We went to a fertility specialist, but the cost with my then insurance was too high, so we decided to stop worrying about OV and cm and just had fun....(ironically now I have a job that covers infertility treatments) Obviously, I FINALLY got my BFP 2 days ago and no cramping or bleeding thus far. I have pretty regular AF's. I can always count on it being a few days early or a few days late....LOL! This time last year, my periods were around the 29th. They can be terrible!. From cramping until I passout; to bleeding until I think I may need a transfusion. Dr. concerns endometreosis, PCOS, scarring cysts, etc Pre AF symptoms: lethargy, sore boobs, slight abdominal cramping and gurgling in my uterus. Increased BM's and bloating. Pre BFP symptoms: the EXACT same things as AF and started on time, about 4 days prior. The only 5 things that were different are as follows: - past wk I had to(and still do) pee every 2 hours - 1 week increased appetite - 5 days ago crazy ass dreams about pregnacies - 3 days ago hot flashes, being told I look pale and a miscellaneous nose bleed. The only thing that made me test were the dreams. The other times I was pregnant, I always dreamt about pregnancies. Other wise I thought I was being a fatty fat fat..... Although I know its hard not to, but symptom spotting is not always the key. It just drives us crazy!!! Just relax and have fun with your mate. I personally feel like all that stressing about on time did not help at all. Good luck ladies and lots of to you all!!!