DD is nearly 6 and we have a private assurance and gender scan on Saturday at 17 weeks. I feel really torn about whether or not to take her with us. I have had 3 previous miscarriages and our last pregnancy was a MMC at 11 weeks in December. I had an early scan at 6 weeks due to subchorionic hemoraging between 5 and 12 weeks and everything was fine with the baby. We had our booking appointment and dating scan at almost 12 weeks and again everything was perfectly fine. The pregnancy has been progressing fine (bloods and urine clear, BP normal, bump developing and I'm certain I have felt some flutters over the past week). However, due to the MMC I have felt intensely anxious and paranoid throughout this pregnancy. I have had difficulty sleeping, reoccurring nightmares and I have went to every appointment expecting the worst. I am extremely concerned that we will go on Saturday and something will be wrong with the baby. My DD knows I'm pregnant and is extremely excited about being a big sister. I know seeing her sibling and being made to feel like part of the pregnancy would be lovely for her but I'm terrified. OH thinks we should take her and is confident that everything will be perfect with the LO. Do you think my anxiety is getting in the way? What would you do?