The BFP Before The 'Would Of Been' Due Date Thread - Any Joiners?

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  1. xxxjessxxx

    xxxjessxxx MC 02/05/11. Hope for BFP

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    Hey ladies :flower:
    I thought of starting a thread for us ladies to help and support eachother to getting a :bfp: before the due date of your loss arrives.
    For example I have experienced 4 losses recently (now 6 :cry: ) but the only one I knew of the due date for, was the first miscarriage.
    I was due for December 9th :) but sadly, my lil Roo left 7 months too early for me to ever get to the due date :sadangel:
    It's creeping up rather close and I'm getting so down with it all, and I figured there are probably more women feeling the same too.
    So I thought to start a thread for all us women aiming to get a bfp before our expected due date just to make the pain that little bit easier... who's joining?


    (I'll start a list with us, and our expected due dates) :hugs:

    xxxjessxxx - :baby: Enolah 21st October 2012
    Twinkie210 - :baby: Liam 28th September 2012
    Keepthefaithx - :baby: Nicholas 2nd October 2012
    KozmikKitten - March 28th 2012 :bfp:
    Newmrsg - April 3rd 2012
    Heavyheart - January 7th 2012 :bfp:
    Jennajul2001 - January 27th 2012
    Srbjbex - May 22nd 2012 :bfp:
    SweetJennie - February 16th 2012
    Confusedprego - March 13th 2012 :bfp:
    Threebirds - February 2012
    Chiapso - February 26th 2012
    Bes_ - March 3rd 2012
    Futurephotos - December 20th 2011 :bfp:
    Jessy1101 - March 12th 2012 :bfp:
    Collie_crazy - January 1st 2012 :bfp:
    Mrskg - August 26th 2012 :bfp:
    Crownjewelz - May 15th 2012
    Sarasparra - May 3rd 2012 :bfp:
    Bastetgrrl - February 5th 2012 :bfp:
    Micsor - November 23rd 2011
    Lemondrops - May 6th 2012
    Ickle pand - January 2nd 2012
    CARNAT22 - January 4th 2012
    Debzie - October 31st 2012 :bfp:
    Butterfly00 - March 2nd 2012 :bfp:
    Blakesmom - April 1st 2012 :bfp:
    Mammatotwo - December 9th 2011
    NZ TTC - April 28th 2012 :bfp:
    Breaking Dawn - April 12th 2012 :bfp:
    Mom22boys - May 15th 2012
    Lomelly - :baby: Liam 10th October 2012
    Nicoleoleole - July 14th 2012 :bfp:
    Mrs Miggens - May 15th 2012 :bfp:
    Jacobnmatty - December 7th 2011
    Babydust818 - April 2012
    YingYang - December 25th 2011
    Lauren10 - April 1st 2012 :bfp:
    Hopeforamirac - February 5th 2012 :bfp:
    Nursekelly - February 11th 2012 :bfp:
    Nibeley - July 5th 2012
    Jelly Beann - July 19th 2012 :bfp:
    Islander - May 7th 2012 :bfp:
    Maddysmum - December 4th 2012
    BabyBumpLove - June 28th 2012
    Jordens_Mommy - June 17th 2011
    Hopestruck - May 4th 2012 :bfp:
    BabyBob - April 14th 2011
    NewbieLisette - Unknown :bfp:
    Kmae - April 13th 2012
    Divinebliss - April 5th 2012
    RomaTomato - March 4th 2012 :bfp:
    Wantingathird - March 30th 2012
    Analley - December 25th
    Ami1985 - July 2012 :bfp:
    Natashahm - August 2012
    LeeC - December 25th 2011
    Dodgercpkl - August 12th 2012
    Pinksmarties - Unknown :bfp:
    Amandamb1108 - January 24th 2012
    Karacal - August 9th 2012
    Jennyanne83 - March 5th 2012 :bfp:
    Camlet - :baby: Sophia October 27th 2012
    Bride2b - April 21st 2012
    Jennifer - July 2012
    2Peas4wings - September 8th 2012
    Mrs_t2 - August 1st 2012 :bfp:
    Lilblossom - August 3rd 2012
    Girlinyork - :bfp: due 3rd July 2013
    FngrsCrossed - March 7th 2012 :bfp:
    Amotherslove - May 14th 2012
    Auntylolo - June 19th 2012:bfp:
    Hanfromman - March 24th 2012
    Samj732 - May 31st/June 7th 2012 :bfp:
    Leinzlove - October 6th 2012 :bfp:
    CherylC3 - October 21/22nd 2012 :bfp:
    Carebear1981 - August 15th 2012
    Md13 - November 16th 2012
    MissMummyMoo - :baby: Noah 19th April 2013
    Bluecathy1978 - July 21st 2012
    CortneyMarie - November 12th 2012
    Lou15 - July 1st 2012 :bfp:
    Kelly9 - June 15th 2012 :bfp:
    Ttcbabyisom - June 15th 2012 :bfp:
    Kategirl - October 26th 2012 :bfp:
    ILuvBabies200 - October 15th 2012
    Old Bear - September 24th 2012
    Sweetz33 - June 15th 2012 :bfp:
    NesSAH - October 20th 2012 :bfp:
    Godblessme - May 23rd 2012
    Dancareoi - June 15th 2012
    Cetarari - May 19th 2012
    LilesMom - December 16th 2012
    Redmonkeysock - November 26th 2012
    Hope2bmum2b - June 29th 2012
    Kelly4 - November 4th 2012 :bfp:
    Bump2Baby - January 18th 2013
    PinkCupcake - December 20th 2012
    SirBaby - January 12th 2013
    Kristina1291 - December 25th 2012
    Sparkles86 - January 23rd 2013
    TraceyAndLee - December 2012
    Armymama2012 - September 29th 2012 :bfp:
    3xBlessed - December 4th 2012
    Bamagurl - November 5th 2012
    Kathleen1994 - January 20th 2013
    MummyWant2be - March 28th 2013
    CatchBabyDust - March 2013
    Foxycleopatra - August 22nd 2012 :bfp:
    Khloeee - December 2012
    BlessedWomb - January 5th 2013
    Tekkitten - February 15th 2013
    Mummy2o - April 5th 2013
    Palangi - October 25th 2012
    Pink_Sparkle - January 15th 2013
    Pbl_ge - April 27th 2013
    Harley Quinn - :bfp: due 29th July 2013
    B&LsMom - :baby: Lukas 17th November 2012
    Brittany12 - June 14th 2013
     
  2. Twinkie210

    Twinkie210 Mom of 2 and an ^Angel^

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    I'll join! I had my MC in August @ 7w, so my due date isn't until March 18, 2012. We just had a our first cycle TTCAL and it was BFN. So I am on to cycle #2 TTCAL.
     
  3. xxxjessxxx

    xxxjessxxx MC 02/05/11. Hope for BFP

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    Hey hunny :) I've added you! Sorry for your loss :hugs:
    Fx'd you'll get that bfp soon! How do you feel about it all?
     
  4. Twinkie210

    Twinkie210 Mom of 2 and an ^Angel^

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    Well I that first cycle afterwards was hard. We were so gung ho trying to get that BFP, I was so hopeful too because everything was timed correctly and I felt really positive, and then AF shows up right on schedule. It was just kind of crushing. I think I am OK with it now, I am just starting to worry that I might have fertility problems that are keeping us from conceiving. It has now been 9 months since we first started. I have a Dr. appt next week for my yearly exam, I am hoping I can talk him into running some blood tests just to make sure everything is working fine.

    I still have some time before my due date, so I feel like I have some time to get my BFP, but I think every month will get harder and harder, like time is ticking away.
     
  5. xxxjessxxx

    xxxjessxxx MC 02/05/11. Hope for BFP

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    I understand how you feel hunny. Do all you can to make your Dr see just how much you need those tests done :flower:
    I feel like I have problems too, after 4 losses I'm just so confused and hurt still.
    I was just watching this video >> http://vimeo.com/19596387 << which brought me to tears. I kind of feel better after watching it though, it helped :)
     
  6. keepthefaithx

    keepthefaithx mom of 1 soon to b 2!

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    I am def in! My due date was 2/24/2012, i am really hoping for this month, but god please by february!!!!!!!!!!!


    Goodluck to everyone i really like this group good idea hun!

    Sorry for your losses
     
  7. xxxjessxxx

    xxxjessxxx MC 02/05/11. Hope for BFP

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    Good to have another one joining us :)
    Sorry for your loss :flower:
    Yes I thought it would be a good idea. This past week it's been on my head constantly, how I'd have a little one in my arms for christmas :cry: How are you coping?
     
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    keepthefaithx mom of 1 soon to b 2!

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    i am doing okay i guess trying to stay postive you know!

    i still cry everday i really am heartbroken, but i do believe that there is a reason for everything and god will bless me and my husband with a beautiful baby

    we all gotta stick together and have faith!
     
  9. xxxjessxxx

    xxxjessxxx MC 02/05/11. Hope for BFP

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    Yeah, I still cry too.
    Is your hubby supportive? How is he coping?
    If it helps, you should watch the video I linked, it helps so much with the way she explains things as a part of life... made me cry :blush:
     
  10. KozmikKitten

    KozmikKitten Well-Known Member

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    I would love to join! My DD was March 28 2012. I think knowing the date made it much harder on DH and I to cope with the loss. We would love a BFP! My goal is by end of Dec but DH wants to be more realistic, and have a BPF by my birthday, which is March 15. GL to everyone! Hope everyone is doing well after your losses!
     
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    xxxjessxxx MC 02/05/11. Hope for BFP

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    Sorry for your loss too hunny :hugs:
    Does your husband talk or let you know how he feels about it?
    So how far we're you gone hun?
     
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    keepthefaithx mom of 1 soon to b 2!

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    my hubby is great!! Hes my best friend hes amazing!!! Hes really upset, he cried a couple times which was so hard for me to see, but we are very supportive with eachother-


    i wanna watch it, but im not good w sad stuff lol i will see!!!
     
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    keepthefaithx mom of 1 soon to b 2!

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    I was almost 12 weeks, i had a missed miscarriage baby passed away at 9weeks.

    Like i still cant believe it happend to us you know? Like its so crazy still-

    it kills me thinking the end of sept i could have found out what we were having like its so freakin crazy

    but we gotta look to the future and hopefully we all get bfp sooon!!!!
     
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    xxxjessxxx MC 02/05/11. Hope for BFP

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    Aww that's great to hear :hugs:
    It's so sad seeing them cry isn't it!
    So how long have you two been together?
    My OH is supportive, but he never shows how he fels about it until it all suddenly gets to him, he snaps and then cries. I've told him countless times to talk to me how he feels, but he always says - it isn't very manly :/
     
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    Twinkie210 Mom of 2 and an ^Angel^

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    My DH is supportive, but it bother's me that he wasn't as upset (at least not outwardly) as I was. I think he understand's why I am upset, but I don't understand why he isn't. He just keeps telling me we can try again. Even when I was upset after getting 3 BFNs this weekend, he just said well we will try again next month. But to me it is personal, like everytime I see a BFN, it is a failure. Somehow he is just always looking ahead to the future.
     
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    xxxjessxxx MC 02/05/11. Hope for BFP

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    Aww that must of been devastating seeing the scan then and finding that out :hugs2:
    It is hard to come to terms with, have you thought of naming it? writing letters? doing anything like that? x
     
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    xxxjessxxx MC 02/05/11. Hope for BFP

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    Yeah it's so hard when it's like that :nope:
    OH's the same, he always says 'well we've got plenty of time to get this right'
    And it's like - that isn't the point!!
    I don't know, they don't see it do they :shrug:
    Are you a POAS addict then? x
     
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    Twinkie210 Mom of 2 and an ^Angel^

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    Exactly, at that point in time I don't care that we can try again, I want it to happen right now. I am a semi addict. I never was until I got my last BFP, now I feel like I want to know right away. But I don't take 5 tests a day like some :) I took one Friday, Saturday, and Monday, which was 9,10, and 12dpo.
    I am more addicted to OPKs because I don't want to miss my surge! LOL I would sometimes take 2 or 3 a day with those. I don't know why either, because me and DH were BDing everyother day anyway!
     
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    xxxjessxxx MC 02/05/11. Hope for BFP

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    Yeah exactly! You don't want to keep seeing :bfn: and you don't want the feeling of confusion and god knows what else everytime you see them. You just want what everyone else seems to be doing at the moment which is getting a :bfp: lol
    Ahh I see, you pace yourself with them :)
    I have days, sometimes I don't even think about it, then other days that's all I want to do! Now I try to make sure I have none in the house as then I know it's harder to x
     
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    keepthefaithx mom of 1 soon to b 2!

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    Men never show feelings, my dh never cries since ive been with him (2004) he cried 2 times, when he proposed and when we had a miscarriage...thats it!
     

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