The losers club

[Fabby]

Just ignorant people. And a friend who we thought was one of our close friends didn't even bother wish rory happy birthday.

 

[Fabby]

We even invited them and their children to the party and they didn't bother come. Well they can just piss off.

 

[KimmyB]

Aw that's mean of them! Some people just aren't worth bothering with and it took me having a baby to realise that. I cut my so called best friend out of my life shortly after Archie was born and it's the best decision I ever made.

 

[Fabby]

Takes 2 mins to wish happy birthday via text/fb whatever.

 

[Lettuce]

I should do a cull really. Just people I don't really care about. I agree that that is very rude fabby. It doesn't take two secs to type it. my most hated is the soppy "I love you sooooo much" ones. Not the one offs on anniversaries but the daily soppy nonsense. Txt them ffs!
There's only one person who really annoys me but I can't delete her.
I'm having a KFC... Since Jen isn't here to watch. Btw, its official. I'm too fat for fashion. I looked ridiculous in everything! So I'm off to Tesco to get some groceries instead. What the hell will I wear to this wedding on sat?

 

[Emmy1987]

Aww that's so rude Fabby!

Was having a lovely nap when someone banged on the door and walked off after two seconds!! Now Daisy is grumpy and whingy blah

 

[Fabby]

Mmmm KFC, I've just had a faking chicken salad. Just done spinning. There's a KFC right next to the gym! Not fair!
As if someone did that Emmy

 

[Lettuce]

Ok, have slight rage. Mil had Jen all day, which was lovely of her. Tho she will be compensated. She didn't phone or txt all day, despite me asking her to, she left her milk at her sisters when she went to visit for lunch so Jen has had NO milk today apart from a feed at 7:30am! And I fed as soon as she came home, at 6:30. I don't spend time expressing for that!! I know she's not been taking a bottle well, but I specifically said not to give her water at the lunchtime, to give milk in a cup! I'm so so annoyed.
Plus hairdressers was shut, plus I couldn't find a dress, so I'm well annoyed.

 

[KimmyB]

Aw Lettuce I can totally relate. When A started going to his nannas when I went back to work I found it really difficult. It wasn't a milk issue with us, it was a sleep issue (never put down for a nap etc) it used to worry me to the point of tears on a regular basis. I even contemplate dropping a day at work so he wouldn't have to go. We had numerous talks about it and it did get better. As time went on I became less stressed about it. So I can see how you feel about it did you speak to her about it afterwards? Where did you go to look for a dress?
Emmy, how annoying!

 

[sapphire1]

Oh dear, sounds like Emmy, Lettuce and Fabby need big losery hugs

I delete people off fb all the time, but I came face to face with one the other day - bit embarrassing Other people who wind me up just get hidden on my newsfeed. I'm pretty crap with fb these days, I only check in every few days. Haven't updated Holly's photos for ages, oops!

 

[Lettuce]

Thanks kimmy, yeah, I tried to tell her how important her milk is. I know I should be grateful that she's doing this for us, but I was never happy with it. I think it'd be different if it was my mum, not least cos its her job! Well, we'll see how it goes. I know Jen is happy, and she won't NEED milk in a few months, but I just worry, silly really. Afterast time when she's didn't put the carseat in the car properly! She had been shown, but instead of being a grown up and phoning me to ask she just muddled along. I was furious. I think I'm just over sensitive.
Can't afford an expensive dress but I looked in Dunnes, primark, New look, marks, tkmaxx...
I'm going to Livingstone tomorrow to see my brother so might look there in debenhams.
Anyone watching gypsy weddings!? Hahaha!

 

[Emmy1987]

lettuce!!

Kimmy I'm having the same issues with sleeping while I'm at work :/

I'm going to poas tomorrow I think.....

 

[daniellelk]

sorry i'v not read all the posts

Had a stressfull week this week :/ H to start with won't sleep at night until early hours in the morning or he will sleep and wake up every hour hello 18month sleep regression!!
Im shattered and just feel so down i'v thought about going to doctor's and seeing if im depressed (i know im not it's just tiredness) wheres my sleeping 12hours a night baby gone

On a plus note, we are back to being dry during the day

hope everyone is well

 

[blondey]

You're going to poas tomorrow Emmy?! Why do you think you're up the duff?

Lettuce! I hate shopping for clothes now too. My hips are massive and come out so suddenly so I feel like a fat bum! What about Matalan or h&m? Or Asda?

I delete people of FB too! I would delete more, but sometimes I'm nosy. If I only kept those people who I comment on and they comment on me, I would probably only have about 50 friends, if that!!

Think AM's got a poorly tummy She did a poo just before her bath (which is really unusual, she never poops this late) and I remember thinking at the time it was taking her ages! I thought I'd leave her 5/10mins till her bath and I was tickling her and saw it had gone all up her back. Looks like it started solid then went to liquid and it smelt god awful with huge chunks of food! Hope she's not poorly tomorrow

 

[Emmy1987]

Yeah I'm tired, gassy, felt crampy a week or so ago but no AF, peeing lots and feeling odd things in my lower abdomen, like little butterflies :s
I'm on the pill but did miss one when we DTD last month and I just don't feel right. Kinda hoping it's stress of the new job as we're not quite ready for number two...

Not told OH yet, won't unless it's bfp, he would just say I'm imagining it, he's nice like that.

Dosy git left the bloody oven on!!!! You can tell he doesn't pay the electric!!!!!!

Didn't get more wipes on my work delivery this week sigh lol.

for AM!

 

[Lettuce]

Oh poor AM! Hope she's ok.
Thanks girls, just felt a bit miserable today, with nothing going to plan! But my mum offered to watch Jen on sat for me to get my hair done, so it'll be done for the wedding that night!
I'll try some more places for an outfit, but I have no idea what suits me anymore, I've totally changed shapw and am so unsure of what to wear! Ive not felt like this for years. It's so strange. My weights changed over the years but my shape was the same, now I'm just confused! Haha. I wonder if I could get away with slim leg black trousers and a top? It's just a reception, the wedding was a secret one in december. then fab shoes from Dune (that belong to my mum) and nice accessories, and good hair!
Danielle hope he starts sleeping better soon.
Emmy, are you thinking bambino?!

 

[Lettuce]

Sorry emmy, crossed posts. Hmmm, suppose theres only one way to find out eh. Hope you're ok

 

[Emmy1987]

Yeah I'm trying not to think about it too much until I know either way.

Lettuce I'm struggling with clothes too, finding work stuff was really hard, my arse/hips have expanded so much!!

 

[Lettuce]

Best idea really.
I just feel ugly in everything!

Some arse slashed my tyre so went out to get in my dads car and I had q flat. So I've had to shell out 50 quid for a new one.

 

[blondey]

Oh no Lettuce! What a morning!! And I'm sure you don't look ugly in everything! We are our own worst critic and notice all our own flaws and make them much bigger than they really are. (If only I could practice what I preach )

Just off to meet some mummy friends at a childrens centre. No particular group on, just going to let the kids run wild!!

Might go to yoga tonight! Haven't been in a couple of years! Once I'm back at work I might try spinning then yoga on a Wed night.

I just realised it's my last proper week with AM Next 2 weeks I'll be specials training. And after specials training I only have 1 week and then I'm back to work. But AM will already have started nursery so I don't want to pull her out to spend time with her, I'd rather her get used to the routine. I can't believe I didn't realise Maybe I should have made more of an effort with her this week, planned something special? She's got her settling in session on Monday, which OH and my mum will have to take her to. They take her and then OH and mum will leave her for half hour. Then if they think she needs any more sessions next week they'll arrange them. I can't believe how quickly work has come around Feeling mega shit about it!

Hope you get the result you want Emmy with the test!!