Hi ladies My name is Dannii and I'm 41 years old. I have a almost 3 month old baby boy who we conceived naturally in January after 11 cycles ttc and 4 early miscarriages last year 2020. Me and my husband also have a 2 year old DS' 10 year old DS and 8 year old DD. Originally our youngest was supposed to be our last but within a few weeks of having him I just new I wanted to have one more. I want to have one more b4 I get too old. Me and my DH have discussed this and agreed we cud try one last time. I know it seems so soon to be writing a post like this when my little baby boy is so young and I honestly wudnt even be thinking about this if I was younger. I turn 42 this December. So only about 5 weeks time. I am on the mini pill. I'm definitely not ready to come off the mini pill yet even though I'm already fed up with taking it becuase it's really messed my cycle up. And turned me in to a moody cowLOL. But obviously I don't have time on my side. My husband is older than me by 5 years he's 46 and turns 47 in May. Anyway even tho my DH has agreed to have one more he said he doesn't want to know when I come off the mini pill or when I'm ovulating and he said he wants it to be a surprise. Anyway I've been going round and round in my head on when will be the best time to stop the mini pill. I wud love to hold off for a year or even untill early 2023. But the thing is I turn 43 In December 2022. If I new for sure I cud still get pregnant at 43 then I wud definitely leave it untill then' but I'm worried if I do leave it untill then I will be too old. Dr Google just fills me with worry. Falling and staying pregnant is much harder for older womon. But it says from 43 fertility really declines alot and continues to decline untill menopause. So I have a better chance of falling at 42 then I do 43. But I'm only 5 weeks off of turning 42 now and want to enjoy our youngest first. I know I'm extremely blessed to have the children I do have already. My question is when should I stop the pill.. I cud stop it in the spring and then NTNP. I wud like to leave it longer if I can But I just don't know if that will be too late. It's hard to know what's the best thing to do. So thought I wud do this post and reach out to you ladies. Sorry its such a long post and I'm really sorry if this has upset anyone.