Peeking over from toddler section as I only have a 2 year old Just watched 'Diary of a teenage virgin' and it got me wondering what everyone's approach to having the sex talk will be? Or will you not? Believe it or not, my mother has NEVER talked to me about sex, the result? When I felt ready for sex, I was too scared to go to the doctors to go on the pill, in case she found out! I used condoms occasionally but was mostly having unprotected sex. I got pregnant at 18 and had a miscarriage much too young to be dealing with pregnancy with a new boyfriend never mind the loss of a child that nobody wanted me to have. My approach with my daughter will be much more open. I will talk about sex with her and I want her to know that it is okay to have sex as long as she is protected and in a safe environment, doesn't feel pressured by the boy or peers. Also that she can come to me with any questions, queries, concerns etc she has about sex, realtionships etc. My OH however will need convincing as he believes we can lock her in her room and she won't have sex until she is 25! So any opinions???