I try to give myself little goals and things to look forward to. Things related to baby and preparing for that can be good, as well as things that do NOT have to do with baby, but are fun! Maybe a small trip with your husband, a get together with a friend, a day trip to a museum or a city, a birthday or other holiday. It looks like you have about 6 months left until you TTC. Perhaps think of something to look forward to at the end of each month. For December it's easy, think of Christmas That is your reward for one month down. Then give yourself something to look forward to for 2 months down, 3 months down etc.