The Wise Woman and Me

[calm]

Hello, I am calm, and as I said in my introduction, I am dying to WTC.

As I said, The Wise Woman says: wait to you can TTC, focus on what you have to do to be able to conceive (carry on with what I have to do to get rid of my anxiety which is the reason why I am waiting to conceive), stop obsessing as this is even worse etc

BUT, I find it very hard not to dream about having a baby, not to decorate the spare room in my spare time, not to read about TTC...

But because I know you know how I feel , it is so good to be able to say, I wannttttttttttttttt tooooooooooooooooooo be able to ttc pleaseeeeeeeeeee

 

[calm]

I am sorry, I got the abbreviation mixed up, it is WTT

 

[calm]

Another mistake... I don't decorate the spare room in my spare time, I decorate it in my mind (make it into a nursery) This is my favorite daydream.

 

[webville]

i have anxiety too its hard to deal with x

 

[kate.m.]

Ive been very sneaky with my spare room! It needed decorating anyway- so i decided we would have 3 pale neutrally/yellowy walls, with one feature wall of leafy patterned wallpaper. At the moment it is a book room, and it looks nice n girly n posh, but...... stick up a few animal stickers, n u have a jungle themed nursery! lol! I have resisted buying any bedding tho!

 

[calm]

Ive been very sneaky with my spare room! It needed decorating anyway- so i decided we would have 3 pale neutrally/yellowy walls, with one feature wall of leafy patterned wallpaper. At the moment it is a book room, and it looks nice n girly n posh, but...... stick up a few animal stickers, n u have a jungle themed nursery! lol! I have resisted buying any bedding tho!

Uf, My spare room is dedicated to meditation and people staying over. There is nothing in there that would make you think of a nursery, it is lilac at the moment I will certainly paint when the times comes. By the way, do you think pregnant women can paint? (Sounds stupid but I am thinking of the stong smells)

 

[calm]

i have anxiety too its hard to deal with x

Is anxiety your reason to WTT ?

 

[webville]

yea i'm having counselling at the moment x

 

[calm]

yea i'm having counselling at the moment x

Well you are very young so plenty of time to TTC (even though I understand the urge is there to have your baby now), good luck and keep positive, I am sure you will be better soon, we can do it

 

[kate.m.]

By the way, do you think pregnant women can paint? (Sounds stupid but I am thinking of the stong smells)

I really dont know- i didnt think of that! Im sure some more knowledgable ppl will be along to answer tho!