The Wise Woman and Me

Discussion in 'Waiting To Try' started by calm, Apr 4, 2009.

  1. calm

    calm Well-Known Member

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    Hello, I am calm, and as I said in my introduction, I am dying to WTC.

    As I said, The Wise Woman says: wait to you can TTC, focus on what you have to do to be able to conceive (carry on with what I have to do to get rid of my anxiety which is the reason why I am waiting to conceive), stop obsessing as this is even worse etc

    BUT, I find it very hard not to dream about having a baby, not to decorate the spare room in my spare time, not to read about TTC...

    But because I know you know how I feel , it is so good to be able to say, I wannttttttttttttttt tooooooooooooooooooo be able to ttc pleaseeeeeeeeeee
     
  2. calm

    calm Well-Known Member

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    I am sorry, I got the abbreviation mixed up, it is WTT
     
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    calm Well-Known Member

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    Another mistake... I don't decorate the spare room in my spare time, I decorate it in my mind (make it into a nursery) This is my favorite daydream.
     
  4. webville

    webville Wtt

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    i have anxiety too its hard to deal with x
     
  5. kate.m.

    kate.m. Mummy to Travis

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    Ive been very sneaky with my spare room! It needed decorating anyway- so i decided we would have 3 pale neutrally/yellowy walls, with one feature wall of leafy patterned wallpaper. At the moment it is a book room, and it looks nice n girly n posh, but...... stick up a few animal stickers, n u have a jungle themed nursery! lol! I have resisted buying any bedding tho!
     
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    calm Well-Known Member

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    Uf, My spare room is dedicated to meditation and people staying over. There is nothing in there that would make you think of a nursery, it is lilac at the moment I will certainly paint when the times comes. By the way, do you think pregnant women can paint? (Sounds stupid but I am thinking of the stong smells)
     
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    calm Well-Known Member

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    Is anxiety your reason to WTT ?
     
  8. webville

    webville Wtt

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    yea i'm having counselling at the moment x
     
  9. calm

    calm Well-Known Member

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    Well you are very young so plenty of time to TTC (even though I understand the urge is there to have your baby now), good luck and keep positive, I am sure you will be better soon, we can do it :hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:
     
  10. kate.m.

    kate.m. Mummy to Travis

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    I really dont know- i didnt think of that! Im sure some more knowledgable ppl will be along to answer tho!
     

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