Hey girls, well what a busy place this is today! Took me ages to catch up and was only on first thing this morning!
Welcome to Babee and Garfie - this is a fab place. Babee I think I see a faint line. How long after your m/c are you? Have you had an af? I am only asking as I am nearly three weeks after D and C and still have the faintest ever line on the PG test. Def hoping this is a new BFP for you. Seems to be quite a lucky forum this! Try a digi and post us a pic!!
Cheryl - Try not to worry about the cramps though I know that it is soo difficult. I am going to be a nightmare when I get PG again. If they are AF type cramps I wouldn't be too worried but if they are any worse then call EPAS and get checked out. When I had 2nd M/c I remember having severe stitch pains in one side one day and I wonder if that was when things went wrong but it def wasn't AF type pains. Really keeping fingers crossed that it's just PG symptoms and that your blood results come back fab. Not long till your scan either which is fab! Lots of things to look forward to.
Manny and Horsey - Looks like you guys are close together, Im hoping Im not too far behind.
Pop Tart and Lou - So love reading your updates and that everything is going so well, though I remember how hard PG symptoms are. Oh what I would give to be back there.
AFM - Well I feel quite positive today as the PG test I did is almost totally negative, infact I reckon I could say tomorrow or day after that it will definitely be totally negative. (How bizarre being happy about a negatvie PG test, only people in our boat would get that). Also the OPk test I did today was still negative but I can definitely see the test line now so it is not like yesterday where I couldn't even see the line! Before when I did OV tests I def had clear fade in and fade out pattern so I hoping that is what I might see over next few days/weeks or however long. How long do you reckon after a totally negative PG test that I would ovulate? Anyone any idea? A friend at work today was trying to encourage me not to use OPK tests as she says they make you far too obsessed and also make you count every minute etc. I understand what she means but I feel that they give me control over something that I cant if that makes sense. I ended up just agreeing with her but I know that I couldn't stop testing even if I wanted to as the need to have an idea what is going on is so strong after everything that has happened. I know it means I will be conscious of a 2WW but I am willing to do that rahter than always be wondering where I am at. My first PG with Flynn was sooo easy now I look back as we just tried, it happened and that was is. Having two m/c changes the whole thing so much. No one that has babies with no worries understand how difficult it is when you are sitting 2 m/c later. Hope you guys know what I mean in my ramble!
So DH and aiming for DTD every other night, keeping eye on OPK and see what happens. I was reading places saying you should wait one Af but we are not we are just going for it because 1, it prob wont happen straight away and 2, if it does we there are loads of people who do it and go on to have healthy babies!! Cheryl you give me so much hope!! (Poptart and Lou - were yours after one AF? This will give me hope if AF comes)
Anyway it's Friday tomorrow and then I'm off for weekend so going to enjoy weekend before back to work for a full week with new class next week which will be hard going as they are not an easy bunch this year oh joy.
Sorry if missed anyones questions, seemed like loads to follow up on!!
Hugs to all xxx