This Is Impossible!!!

[Kaileymonster]

I'm 7 weeks and 5 days.... I've Got Every Symptom Going And I'm Begining To HATE Being Pregnant. I Thought I'd Feel Different... I'm Excited And Happy about Being Pregnant But All I Can Think Of Is Negative Stuff Like... Childcare, Money.... What If Etc...

I Haven't Been Able To Stop Crying All Day... I Feel Like An Insane Person... Also Due To The Fact That Flumps Daddy REFUSES To Talk About Flump And Constantly Changes The Subject I Feel Completely On My Own...

Sooooo Fed Up!!!!

 

[Gwizz]

Its your hormones hun playing havoc with your mind, some days are better than others and its natural to worry ... just hold on it'll get better, takes time to adjust

Have a nice bath, choc and watch a movie or something special together

 

[Kaileymonster]

It's Making Me Feel Insane!!!!

I Want To Sleep But I'm Having Horrible Dreams.... Can't Wait To Get Over 13 Weeks.... I Really Can't.... I'm Hating It And I Feel Horrible Saying It

Arrrggghhhhh!!!! Hate Hormones!!!

 

[RebeccaR19]

I get so fed up with my husband because he has no clue what I'm going through and, for the first week, wouldn't talk about little bean. He is talking now, but he still just doesn't get it. I mean, I got sick because he was washing the dishes and the dish soap smelled too strong and he got offended that I got sick. Men just don't understand. There needs to be a class where they can simulate the symptoms for men so that they can see what we are going through, and understand that we need them to be VERY supportive.

I agree with Gwizz, though, that your hormones are taking you for a ride. I don't know if this will help you. But it has helped me when I start thinking negative to stop and think of things I can be thankful for. #1 it's a miracle that this little one is inside me #2 so far the doctors have said the pregnancy is healthy etc etc

 

[Kaileymonster]

I Feel That I Would Feel Better If He Would Actually Listen To Me And Try To Understand... He Doesn't Seem To Understand The Impact That This Tiny Little Bean Is Actually Having On Me... I'm Thankful He's Being Practicle e.g. Working Overtime And Saving Up But I Need Him At Home Talking To Me About The Biggest Thing Going For Us Right Now.... I'm Convinced That We Don't Have Enough Time To Be In A Relationship And It's Scaring Me....

*sigh*

 

[CandyApple19]

Ben was the same to start with, its their way of protecting themselves if anything goes wrong, u need to remember that they arnt going through it themselves physically.....so they dont quite get it, he'll soften up once uve had scan and start to feel movement cheer up, i felt down to start with but now im getting excited!

 

[Kaileymonster]

I Had An Emergency Scan And He Wasn't Allowed In... He's Devestated Because I Saw The Heartbeat And He Couldn't ......

Gosh! Thanks.... Feel Better Already!!!

 

[CandyApple19]

its normal to feel like 'oh god what have i done' to start with, i mean thinking about being pregnant is SO exciting, but then being pregnant and feeling pregnant is a whole different thing, and some are lucky enough to fly through it feeling great and others feel like death.

Just remember that you shouldn't feel bad forever, and you'll start to lighten up soon enough, its unfortunatly the hormones that play a role in how you feel too, so remember, when u feel bad, shake it off, dont think about it, keep yourself busy and it'll fly past and u two will be talking about baby clothes, names etc. xxxx Hugs!

 

[My4thmiracle]

It could be worse girls, my babies daddy doesn't want me to keep the baby. Therefore I'm going at it alone

 

[Kaileymonster]

Ouch!!!

I Feel Like A Single Parent Sometimes... Just Wish He Wasn't So Practical And Would Hug Me And Tell Me It's Going To Be Ok And Support Me.... Early Pregnancy Is Difficult Enough...

This Is The Best Thing That Could Happen To Me But I'm A Mess... Go Figure!?

 

[Pippin]

It does get better I promise, hang in there we all have days like these.

 

[18singlemom2b]

dont worry, the beginning is just hard, things will get easier trust me!

 

[ChristinaRN]

Men don't usually get excited until around 20 weeks....that's when it becomes real for them. Around 20 weeks they get to see the baby for the 1st time on ultrasound and then get to start feeling its moving shortly thereafter. Before then....it's all just talk to them. Sorry he isn't very understanding. Be good to yourself.

 

[soootired]

Men don't usually get excited until around 20 weeks....that's when it becomes real for them. Around 20 weeks they get to see the baby for the 1st time on ultrasound and then get to start feeling its moving shortly thereafter. Before then....it's all just talk to them. Sorry he isn't very understanding. Be good to yourself.

If your lucky, my hubby didnt get it till my little girl was 9 months. he is a lovely man and he did pretend/try to get it he but now admitts he just didnt till she could give affection back.
Men just dont have the hormones we do and the baby is in us not them. Try not to let it get to you. Not even bothering to get my hubby to come to my scan at 12 weeks, he would have to drive miles and take time of work and he just wouldnt care (he is a great guy really lol)
Oh and I also absalutally HATE being pregnant too, no glowing second trimester either. I am having them close together to get it over and done with. But my little girl is amazing and everytime i look at her i am reminded that it is all worth it