This month marks 3 years.

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  1. mammag

    mammag Expecting a Rainbow

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    So, third time is a charm right? I really hope that counts in TTC years. I have always been leery of posting over here because some of you have been trying for so terribly long with no children at all and, well I don't know, I just don't feel right, so I mainly hang over in TTC, but it can be so hard over there sometimes you know? With all the :bfp:'s (which I get VERY excited about, but it is still hard) and some times 'silly' questions IYKWIM. I don't mean to be harsh, but with this anniversary coming up I just really need some support from ladies in my position. Thanks for listening to my insensitive rant :wacko:
     
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    Jellycat Well-Known Member

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    :hugs: hope you get positive news soon
     
  3. countrybarbie

    countrybarbie Active Member

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    i have been trying for almost three years TTC with my first but it really does get frustrating when all your friends and people around you are getting pregnant and having babies but your not i know how hard it is and depressing. Im happy for all my friends but it just hard im torn between happiness for them jealousy because it aint me.... Im trying not to give up because being a mommy is all i want it something i know i was ment to do but why is it so hard for me to conceive.... so I know how you feel it hard to keep seeing those negatives on the test..
     
  4. wannabemummyb

    wannabemummyb LTTTC a rainbow

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    Mammag gl hun, hope you gets your bfp soon x
     
  5. mammag

    mammag Expecting a Rainbow

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    Thank you ladies! Lots of :dust: for everyone, feeling a little better today, PMA!
     
  6. Redfraggle

    Redfraggle TTC since Oct 2005

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    :hugs: Not an insensitive rant at all.

    Hope you get that :bfp: soon.
     
  7. MariaF

    MariaF A new Mummy!

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    I hope you are right and 3d year is lucky for you!! :dust:
     
  8. Mummy2Boo

    Mummy2Boo Well-Known Member

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    We're now over 3yrs TTC #2 so I'm in a similar position to you. It just doesn't seem to get any easier, even though we took a year TTC DS so you'd think I'd be prepared to go through some waiting again. Never ever thought it would be this long!

    Lots of luck to you xxx
     
  9. mammag

    mammag Expecting a Rainbow

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    See that's the strange thing for me, my first two came extremely quickly with no more than a decision to get pregnant there they were, that's why it's so hard to understand this time around, "unspecific secondary infertility" really doesn't tell you much. I ovulate, DH has a good Sperm Count, no scar tissue or complications from giving birth, that's what makes this so hard for me, the assurance that everything is as it should be except NOT getting pregnant, I had a :bfp: over two years ago that ended in early miscarriage, but nothing since then, not even a sniff of a BFP. Boo, have a good feeling about this cycle though :) Lol, but I always say that.
     
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    kayley2704 Well-Known Member

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    i no how u feel hun im coming up 4 years and nothing is working just get very low with everyone i know having bfp! grr i no im only 23 but im such a family person and love kids just cant seem to cook up my own :( sending love to you xx
     
  11. FutureMommie

    FutureMommie Praying for our 1st

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    Don't feel bad about posting here even though you already have children. We are here to support, it can be really hard hanging in the ttc thread.
     
  12. mammag

    mammag Expecting a Rainbow

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    Thank you, that means a lot :)
     
  13. lupinerainbow

    lupinerainbow Pregnant #1 after 9+ years LTTTC

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    Aww :hugs: the year and the half year milestones are always the hardest :hugs: we are here for you :flower: hope you get your bfp soon!

    xxxxxx
     
  14. crystal443

    crystal443 Well-Known Member

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    Awww Hun, kids or no kids trying for 3 years is hard:cry: We've got 2 kids as well and have been trying for a loooooong time:shrug: We're both fine so we're now heading for IVF, its tough for sure especially when there's no reason not to fall pregnant:nope: Best of Luck !!!!
     

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