gradschoolmum
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Wasn't quite sure how to title the post, but wanted to be sure to get a specific audience.
My husband and I are TTC, this is the first month. I've been over the moon about it, and so has he really. I came off AF and waited a day or two, little bit before ovulating but just to make sure he still feels wanted for more than his sperm set up a very sexy night, lingerie, candles- everything. He was super into it.... until we actually got down to doing the deed. We've always used condoms for birth control. He is uncircumcised and has never had unprotected sex- and he says it hurts him when the skin moves back. First night was just terrible sex, something that has not happened to that extent before. And then second day, he said he had a pit of dread in his stomach and couldn't keep it up. He's been weird since.
So several questions:
1- Anyone have any advise on how to get him comfortable having no good unprotected sex? I told him he needed to pull the skin back to stretch it before having sex again and he says it just feels awful. Obviously, I'm wanting us both to enjoy sex and not just do it to have a baby
2- now I'm dreading conception sex. He says he wants to try this month still but he can barely push in halfway. This may be a stupid question but can halfway to the cervix be enough?
I know we'll figure it out; this is just one area we've hardly had issues in and it just put a damper on baby making
My husband and I are TTC, this is the first month. I've been over the moon about it, and so has he really. I came off AF and waited a day or two, little bit before ovulating but just to make sure he still feels wanted for more than his sperm set up a very sexy night, lingerie, candles- everything. He was super into it.... until we actually got down to doing the deed. We've always used condoms for birth control. He is uncircumcised and has never had unprotected sex- and he says it hurts him when the skin moves back. First night was just terrible sex, something that has not happened to that extent before. And then second day, he said he had a pit of dread in his stomach and couldn't keep it up. He's been weird since.
So several questions:
1- Anyone have any advise on how to get him comfortable having no good unprotected sex? I told him he needed to pull the skin back to stretch it before having sex again and he says it just feels awful. Obviously, I'm wanting us both to enjoy sex and not just do it to have a baby
2- now I'm dreading conception sex. He says he wants to try this month still but he can barely push in halfway. This may be a stupid question but can halfway to the cervix be enough?
I know we'll figure it out; this is just one area we've hardly had issues in and it just put a damper on baby making