to make or not to make an OH appt?

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  1. sma1588

    sma1588 mommy 2 kaydence

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    just wondering if the ladies who are ttc "make :sex: appts" as in telling ure guys that you need to BD the next how ever many nights or what not? myself, i dont even tell him when i wanna BD so that way he doesnt feel used or like its just a job and no fun to it. i was reading some post and noticed some guys were feeling used and like it was just rutine and didnt get much fun out of it............. so i was just wondering how other ppl feel
     
  2. MsLesley

    MsLesley Well-Known Member

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    i think thats a good idea to not let him in on everything...tho..im sure he will get the hint when trying for a little while and they only seem to 'get it' for a few certain days out of the month if thats what some do? haha. so its of course good to give them some lovin even when its not fertility time ;)
     
  3. Fiore

    Fiore Well-Known Member

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    I don't tell him, I just pounce ;) xx
     
  4. sma1588

    sma1588 mommy 2 kaydence

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    lol i like it girls!!! eventhough we think about it ALLlllllllll day lol he doesnt need to know EVERYTHING........ right? well best of luck to you and have fun!!
     
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    We do it every 48 hours, but I vary the times, sometimes walk him up, sometimes before bed, and the ones he likes - in the afternoon on the weekend - if I need to shift the schedule, I use it night and then the morning 36 hours later, that way if looks like two days when it is in fact shorter - I know it sounds a little cruel, but the only times i'm off limits is during AF, which is only three days, I don't want him feeling pressured - it's bad enough that I am. Go :sex:
     
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    sma1588 mommy 2 kaydence

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    well i guess there are some guys who like to know that there going to get it alot in a week lol so he knows but just doesnt know when...... hmmm that sounds like a tease to me.....jk but then again what a good suprise
     

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