to make or not to make an OH appt?

[sma1588]

just wondering if the ladies who are ttc "make appts" as in telling ure guys that you need to BD the next how ever many nights or what not? myself, i dont even tell him when i wanna BD so that way he doesnt feel used or like its just a job and no fun to it. i was reading some post and noticed some guys were feeling used and like it was just rutine and didnt get much fun out of it............. so i was just wondering how other ppl feel

 

[MsLesley]

i think thats a good idea to not let him in on everything...tho..im sure he will get the hint when trying for a little while and they only seem to 'get it' for a few certain days out of the month if thats what some do? haha. so its of course good to give them some lovin even when its not fertility time

 

[Fiore]

I don't tell him, I just pounce xx

 

[sma1588]

lol i like it girls!!! eventhough we think about it ALLlllllllll day lol he doesnt need to know EVERYTHING........ right? well best of luck to you and have fun!!

 

[Caterpiller]

We do it every 48 hours, but I vary the times, sometimes walk him up, sometimes before bed, and the ones he likes - in the afternoon on the weekend - if I need to shift the schedule, I use it night and then the morning 36 hours later, that way if looks like two days when it is in fact shorter - I know it sounds a little cruel, but the only times i'm off limits is during AF, which is only three days, I don't want him feeling pressured - it's bad enough that I am. Go

 

[sma1588]

well i guess there are some guys who like to know that there going to get it alot in a week lol so he knows but just doesnt know when...... hmmm that sounds like a tease to me.....jk but then again what a good suprise