Today was supposed to be a happy day...

Discussion in 'Miscarriage Support' started by scoobydrlp, Nov 18, 2011.

  1. scoobydrlp

    scoobydrlp Well-Known Member

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    I'm having a bit of a hard time...today was supposed to be my pregnancy confirmation visit, I would be about 6 1/2 weeks. But instead I had to go and have my blood drawn to be sure my hcg was back to normal after miscarrying last Thursday.

    Why can't I just be a normal person that can get pregnant and stay pregnant? It took us 23 months just to get a BFP, and I never even got to have a first visit. :cry:
     
  2. bubbles_92

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    im so sorry for your loss, i lost my bub last week at six and a half weeks it is one of the worst things someone can go through my thoughts are with you
     
  3. TaraLynn

    TaraLynn mama to Kiernan & 1 angel

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    I'm so sorry, girl. I wish I could give you answers, but it boils down to unfairness and just plain old suckiness. Thinking of you, and praying for a sticky little bean for you.

    I lost my baby last month at 7 weeks =/
     
  4. Pocketrocket

    Pocketrocket Well-Known Member

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    i to lost my baby at 10 weeks last month but am surrounded by friends with growing bumps. Its tough and life seems so unfair. I have a 3 year old son who took 15 months to concieve, my lost baby took 16 months so im not hopefully i will get preg again anytime soon. The pain of the loss does get easier with time, i still think about my mc every day tho. xx
     
  5. mazmummyoftwo

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    so sorry to hear about your loss, hugs. life is so unfair at times. i have lost 2 babies first was ectopic at 6 weeks , then after nearly 2 years i got pregnant with my son who is now 4 and 1/2 years old, then i had my daughter in march 2010 and last december 2010 i lost my baby at 6 1/2 weeks. am very luck to have two beautiful children the pain does get a little better over time but you never forget what you have lost. me and my husband would love another child so i try to stay positive about but i know i will worry if i do get pregnant again i would not wish anyone to go through losing a child. my heart goes out to you hun. it`s coming up to year since i lost my baby and it still hurts lots at times .
     
  6. snowflakes120

    snowflakes120 Mama Birdie!!

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    I am so sorry scooby. I wish you nothing but the best. And life it just plain old not fair sometimes I have noticed.

    I see we don't live far from eachother. I am in Charlotte.
     
  7. scoobydrlp

    scoobydrlp Well-Known Member

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    Thanks for sharing your stories, ladies. I'm sorry that any of us has had to go through this pain, but I will say it makes me feel a little better to know I'm not the only one. :hugs:
     
  8. scoobydrlp

    scoobydrlp Well-Known Member

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    We could be neighbors! I work in the University area :hi:
     
  9. Dana_Scully

    Dana_Scully Zachary's Mommy

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    I'm sorry for you loss... :(
     
  10. mom2pne

    mom2pne Well-Known Member

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    I am so sorry! I hope next time you have a sticky/ healthy baby and it doesn't take long to get a bfp.

    I have had 3 m/c's in April 1992 at 10.5 weeks, April 2008 at 7.5 weeks and March 2011 at 4.5 weeks. It took 14 months to get pregnant after my first.
     

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