Today was supposed to be a happy day...

[scoobydrlp]

I'm having a bit of a hard time...today was supposed to be my pregnancy confirmation visit, I would be about 6 1/2 weeks. But instead I had to go and have my blood drawn to be sure my hcg was back to normal after miscarrying last Thursday.

Why can't I just be a normal person that can get pregnant and stay pregnant? It took us 23 months just to get a BFP, and I never even got to have a first visit.

 

[bubbles_92]

im so sorry for your loss, i lost my bub last week at six and a half weeks it is one of the worst things someone can go through my thoughts are with you

 

[TaraLynn]

I'm so sorry, girl. I wish I could give you answers, but it boils down to unfairness and just plain old suckiness. Thinking of you, and praying for a sticky little bean for you.

I lost my baby last month at 7 weeks =/

 

[Pocketrocket]

i to lost my baby at 10 weeks last month but am surrounded by friends with growing bumps. Its tough and life seems so unfair. I have a 3 year old son who took 15 months to concieve, my lost baby took 16 months so im not hopefully i will get preg again anytime soon. The pain of the loss does get easier with time, i still think about my mc every day tho. xx

 

[mazmummyoftwo]

so sorry to hear about your loss, hugs. life is so unfair at times. i have lost 2 babies first was ectopic at 6 weeks , then after nearly 2 years i got pregnant with my son who is now 4 and 1/2 years old, then i had my daughter in march 2010 and last december 2010 i lost my baby at 6 1/2 weeks. am very luck to have two beautiful children the pain does get a little better over time but you never forget what you have lost. me and my husband would love another child so i try to stay positive about but i know i will worry if i do get pregnant again i would not wish anyone to go through losing a child. my heart goes out to you hun. it`s coming up to year since i lost my baby and it still hurts lots at times .

 

[snowflakes120]

I am so sorry scooby. I wish you nothing but the best. And life it just plain old not fair sometimes I have noticed.

I see we don't live far from eachother. I am in Charlotte.

 

[scoobydrlp]

Thanks for sharing your stories, ladies. I'm sorry that any of us has had to go through this pain, but I will say it makes me feel a little better to know I'm not the only one.

 

[scoobydrlp]

I am so sorry scooby. I wish you nothing but the best. And life it just plain old not fair sometimes I have noticed.

I see we don't live far from eachother. I am in Charlotte.

We could be neighbors! I work in the University area

 

[Dana_Scully]

I'm sorry for you loss...

 

[mom2pne]

I am so sorry! I hope next time you have a sticky/ healthy baby and it doesn't take long to get a bfp.

I have had 3 m/c's in April 1992 at 10.5 weeks, April 2008 at 7.5 weeks and March 2011 at 4.5 weeks. It took 14 months to get pregnant after my first.