Me and OH and Megan live in a house we are privately renting but were also sharing this house with OH brother, his wife and there 13month old little boy! we all get on great so thats good, but im having problems.... There little boy is really spoiled and throws temper tantrums everytime he doesnt get what he wants, he bites and hits and has just taken to spitting!! Megan has a seat thing with animals on it that i got from the early learning centre and she will normally lie on it for about 20 minutes so i can grab some food, nip to toilet or go chuck on some washing while OH is working, but this morning she was on it and i went to go and check on her and SIL and her little boy were next to her and her little went and spat on Megans head, i was waiting for SIL to say something but she just started laughing and cleaned it off so i took Megan and came upstairs now ive been up here all day since it happened cos its disgusting. Like a few days ago he watched what you do with megan but he started pulling at her fingers and toes and she ended up crying and he gets to giddy when hes around....and i feel like such a bad mum cos hes actually managed to hit her on her head and scratch it a few times while trying to take her dummy out of her mouth when she was on her seat, i took him away and told him no but he burst out crying and started hitting me so i told him no again, but him mum says i have no right to tell her boy off...so why isnt she then?! but when OH has megan he lets the little boy go near her and i feel bad cos i know there cousins but hes just quite brutal, and hes soo spoiled. He doesnt take a dummy but if megan has one in her mouth hell try and take it out, if shes having a bottle hell grab at your arm to get it until his mum or dad gives him a bottle. I just dont really know what to do cos last few days when im around him ive kept megan up in my arms so he cant get to her but OH shouted at me saying i have to let the little one get used to her. anybody else had anykind of problems like these with toddlers and new babys?