totally shattered

[emma long]

went for my 20 week ultrasound yesterday and left there in tears!! had to have another ultrasound today at the fetal medicine unit because it turns out i have a massive bloodclot behind bubs that is affecting the placenta, there is nothing drs can do untill i get to 24 weeks, but who knows if bub will hang in there that long!! i have been told to have stricked bed rest for the next mth, which is so hard, because all i can think off is something bad is going to happen!! it make it harder after seeing bubs on the ultrasounds, because he/ she seems like such a little person now!!! i wanted this baby so bad and i can't help having a negative thought pattern!! sorry to winge i am just shattered and feel so alone

 

[Staceiz19]

so sorry to hear hun
i hope everything goes well and im sure ur lil bubs will be fine he/she has hung in there so far also i know its easier said than done but tryyyy not to worry cos u dont want to stress bubs! goodluck x

 

[Katherine]

Sorry to hear that. We'll keep our fingers crossed for you little one

 

[brutus09]

I will keep you and the little one in my prayers.

 

[NeyNey]

Oh honey I'm sorry....I know one of our members here had something similar and went on to have a beautiful baby boy....

Keeping everything crossed for you

 

[tickledpink3]

Stay strong and I'm sure bubs can make it to 24 weeks. Got my F'xd for you

 

[catfromaus]

Try to stay positive, I have read of a positive outcome to a story like yours recently. Will be thinking of you and LO

Cat
xxx

 

[bek74]

Hun please keep a positive outlook, I know it is hard but you have to. Stick to bed rest do what is needed, I have read positive outcomes to situations like yours so be positive. Bubs has held on this long and I am sure he or she will continue to hang on.

 

[emma long]

thank you all so much for your kind words!! feels good to know i have people thinking of me and bubs

 

[Tudor Rose]

Think positive hun

 

[Nel.B]

This must be so hard for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you

 

[Adela Quested]

I am so sorry! Just remember that we are all behind you, there are always people here when you need advice or just to vent.

What rotten luck - I am keeping my fingers crossed for you that everything will work out just fine.

 

[LouLou78]

Fingers crossed for you. Hang in there xx

 

[babythinkpink]

 

[shortie1990]

sorry to hear this, keep positive

 

[ladypotter]

praying for a healthy baby for you!! I dealt with the blood clots early on and thankfully mine diminished, so there is still hope for sure!! Just listen to the doctors and rest so it doesn't have as much opportunity to interfere with your baby!!!

 

[Emzywemzy]

Big hugs hun. Stay positive- your baby will make it just fine xx

 

[Conkers]

Sorry to hear that things didn't go well at the scan. I'll keep everything crossed for you and baby xx

 

[Mummy2Asher]

((hugs))
it must be really worrying but try to keep positive xxx

 

[lobogirl]

I will keep you and the little one in my prayers.