Touch of the green eyed monster :(

[Lashes85]

Well my cousin found out she was having a little girl yesterday.
Althou im SOOOOO happy for her i cant help but feel really jealous!! I even prayed it would be a boy I feel so stupid, and like a totally bitch!!

I really wish i didn't feel like this!! I must be tapped in the head or something.
I dont think i'll ever have a little girl.

I know how lucky i am to have 3 gorgeous little boys, and i wouldn't change them for the world!! I guess im just feeling really down today, with AF showing yesterday and now this!!

Oh the joys of being a women ay!!

 

[flowerpower84]

Hi Lashes -- I am in the same boat. I get so jealous when someone I know gets pregnant and then I feel really guilty. It's normal - you have to let yourself go through those feelings. My sister-in-law is pregnant with twins (naturally) and they told us two days after I got my first BFN.

Since then, a couple of my friends have announced that they, too, are pregnant and I go through the same mix of emotions. It's completely normal. And remember - we don't know how long they've been trying! Who knows? Your friend could have been TTC for 12 months before they were successful. I think when people announce they're pregnant, they should say "We're pregnant after ___ months/years of trying!"

I know this doesn't completely relate to your story, since you already have 3 boys (wow!!), and I've never been pregnant. But I think the emotions are similar

Good luck - hope you get that baby girl!

 

[Serene123]

I have a girl and I feel envious when other people have girls as I want another one It's normal x

 

[ToxicFox92]

my mum had a little girl just under two years ago, and now that i want one, i hate her for it, and shes my own mum! it's completely normal.

 

[redpaperheart]

like everyone else says - so normal. my green eyed monster is in full swing. I have a hard time seeing people in the mall with little ones!

 

[waiting4stork]

TOUCH of the green eyed monster, just a touch?
I AM green sometimes and feel awful about it sister has had a boy since we have been ttc, her sister is pregnant again, my sisters younger brother gt his girlfriend pregnant, not living together not been together long, not planned, I know soooo many people that have had babies whilst we have been in the ttc journey, after almost years its killing me now its not even that i notice it more, they are actually people I am close to.
Rant over sorry ladies xxxx gl xxxx

 

[Lashes85]

Ahh thanks girls

Im glad im not the only ''green eyed monster'' Grrr lol.

But... Many of you ladys haven't had any babies, and have been trying for a long time. So i can totally understand why you's would be green, you have every right to be!!
Me on the other hand, i've had a baby and not just one!! So i should concider myself very very very lucky!!

Heres to you all getting your BFP real soon xx

 

[lornapj83]

hey lashes i know how you feel i have 4 boys and would love a princess my sister has just had a baby 12 weeks ago and i prayed it would be a boy i feel so bad she did have a boy who i love him to bits but i wish it was me me and oh have been trying for 11months so gutted she has 3 girls and 2 boys now and the last 1 was a mistake i would of loved to have been her lol xxx