croydongirl
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I have had 4 m/c while ttc #1. The last year has been a nightmare. My friend who has an almost 2 year old, kept saying to me - you get pregnant and then we'll try for another one. Thye weren't even actually trying but are now 6 weeks pregnant. It was hard to hear because of the little jokes we had about us going first - and of course I am not holding her to that, i know we were just playing and dreaming together but it is a reminder that we are still not on our way to having a baby.
Anyway, we chat on the hone a lot and email back and forth, and she was good togive me space at the beginning when i told her i couldn't talk about her new pregnancy just yet and needed time to get myself together. But now every email is about how tired she is and how sick she feels and it is just so hard for me to know how to respond when i would give anything to be in her shoes
Anyway, we chat on the hone a lot and email back and forth, and she was good togive me space at the beginning when i told her i couldn't talk about her new pregnancy just yet and needed time to get myself together. But now every email is about how tired she is and how sick she feels and it is just so hard for me to know how to respond when i would give anything to be in her shoes