Trying to start my family this month.

[stephlynnie]

So i started to try last month and found out i failed this morning . I did infact have the "pill withdrawral" i went a month and a half with out a period with pregnancy symptoms at the end. So now that i know for sure i am no I will be trying again. My husband and i have a girls name picked out but we can not agree on names for a boy. We do not want names that are used alot. The girls names we have picked out are Elsa or Alivia.

 

[Mum2miller]

oh sorry it wasn't good news I also thought i was PG last month and came crashing down when i got the then got me. its always so emotional and as much as you try telling yourself not to get your hopes up.. you always do I also dont like names used regularly. My family joke that i just get the whitepages out and go thru looking for weird names or last names lol i dont care what anyone thinks tho as long as you love it is all that matters. i think your names are lovely when i fell pregnant with DS i picked his name out about 3 days after and stuck with it untill he was born DH changed it every week but in the end its always DW who gets the last word

 

[stephlynnie]

What sucks even more though is i was 2 months pregnant last year, and it died on new years eve and had the d&c 2 weeks after (it's sucked). It was a missed miscarriage. When i was pregnant 2 of friends and my cousins girl friend got pregnant like only weeks apart from me. They all had theirs like a week ago. The last one was born 6 days ago. Now my friend and little sister are 2 months pregnant and today i found out that my sister in law is pregnant

 

[Donna84]

Hi Steph

I know how you feel about people close to you getting pregnant

One of my younger sisters got pregnant and lost it in December last year, I then got pregnant and lost it in April this year. She then got pregnant again and is currently suffering another miscarriage.

In the mean time my other sister got pregnant by mistake and everything seems fine, she's almost 10 weeks atm

It really SUCK!!!!

 

[stephlynnie]

Yea that was my 2nd d&c. I get so depressed

 

[Mum2miller]

yee my sister is due next week, we had planned on raising them together as they would have only been a couple of months apart and now it will just be a constant reminder of what i dont have and the week after my son passed away i found out 4 of my cousins were pregnant but just didnt know how to tell me aswell as 2 friends. It always seems to be the way. When my son passed a lady at the hospital warned "u know every person you see now is going to be pregnant" and it was so true its like they all just moved into my neighborhood!! Try and keep a PMA i know its hard. Hopefully our luck will change soon

 

[stephlynnie]

Omg. I'm sorry about your son