Hello! I'm new here so forgive me for not knowing the lingo much. We've been trying to conceive baby number 1 for a few years now, however my cycles are crazily irregular! They vary from 29-47 days, and I had one cycle that was over 60 days! I've been tested for various things and the doctor doesn't seem to know why my cycles are so irregular. Anyway, my partner and I are both in our 30's so we're worried about running out of time - my mother went through menopause at 35! Up until this month I've always relied on 4 or 5 period apps but none of them can ever agree on when my next period will be let alone when I'm fertile! This month we started using the Clearblue digital ovulation tests. I've avoided ovulation tests until now because I didn't understand them - the lines never looked any different to me! For some reason I never knew you could get digital ovulation tests!! Anyway, according to the tests I'm at high fertility right now but the one I'm using has a flashing face for high fertility and a still face for peak fertility. I haven't seen that yet and was wondering how many flashing faces I should expect to see before (if?) I get the still face? I'm trying not to stress too much but I've never used these before! One of the biggest things that bugs me about trying for so long is everyone else asking "when are you having children?" I know they mean well, but it's so frustrating when we've been trying for so long and got nowhere! I wanted to add, I've not tried the temperature thing because I don't fully understand how that helps with tracking your fertility and ovulation? And finally, is there anything else I can do to try and help with this process of trying to conceive?