TTC #1 Motivation missing

[PatriNina]

We've been trying to conceive for a while (5 months NTNP, 5 months actively TTC) and it seems that every advice I read for better chances of conceiving is like a lifestyle change

Why is it so hard to achieve something so natural?

Guess this is more of a vent, but still... where do you get your motivation from? The motivation to keep on hoping it will happen

 

[missk1989]

We found that the pressure was doing us more harm than good and although the hope never faded, (we had fertility issues so we needed hope where science was against us), the first month that we finally accepted, after seeing a doctor that we probably would need help, we fell pregnant.

 

[PatriNina]

I guess not stressing over it is the hardest part of TTC. And there is the doubt that comes with each TWW. Guess we all have to go through it

Congrats btw!

 

[Dia0624]

I was feeling similarly last month.. just wasn't in the mood for another let down. And I ended up having a chemical.
Just take a break. Sometimes we just need to get our mind off it and have some fun. You'll find your motivation again.