Hi I am looking for others to lean on and help me not be crazy two weeks out of each month. We have had 3 babies, one miscarried at 4 month, I have a 13 yr old and our youngest passed away a few yrs ago at 6yrs. We realized we want more kids and a large family so now trying to see if we can cram 4 in 5 yrs! I need to lose weight and DH had a VR in Sept. His tests so far have been above normal but it takes time and his tests are always after I Ovulate so its a maybe we were able to maybe not every month! I have Lupus but am considered in remission and my RH, Neurologist and High risk OB all okayed me. I have been off all meds and doing well since April. The only thing they think I will need is a daily injection due to high coagulants. Hoping to find other in similar situations (really hoping no one else has lost children though, its a horrible club).