ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

how are my ladies today?

Hi doll! Im good, how are you??

 

[horseypants]

it's friday! that's a good thing. i'm tired waiting to o still. hoping the clomid is going to work any good plans this weekend?

 

[AerisandAlex]

I'm probably going to have a D&C sometime next week... but I'm hoping to try again after everything's all settled again. It's been rough but even though I'm hoping for some good news during my ultrasound next Wednesday, I know the chances are pretty low of my baby coming up with a heartbeat as I'd be 11 weeks by then

If that's the case I'm most likely going to concede to the D&C as this wait is killing me already and although I'd love to have a miracle, everyday it seems more and more less likely to happen...

 

[horseypants]

AerisandAlex, aww sweety pie, ive been there - im so sorry to hear you are going through this.

 

[mommylov]

it's friday! that's a good thing. i'm tired waiting to o still. hoping the clomid is going to work any good plans this weekend?

Not much. Dh wants to go to old town which is this place by us with a bunch of little quante shops and restaurants. It's a cute little area. What about you?

 

[mommylov]

I'm probably going to have a D&C sometime next week... but I'm hoping to try again after everything's all settled again. It's been rough but even though I'm hoping for some good news during my ultrasound next Wednesday, I know the chances are pretty low of my baby coming up with a heartbeat as I'd be 11 weeks by then

If that's the case I'm most likely going to concede to the D&C as this wait is killing me already and although I'd love to have a miracle, everyday it seems more and more less likely to happen...

I'm so sorry to hear You have found a great group of ladies here and if you to talk we are here

 

[TTCSecrets]

I know, i actually am starting to think this is the first time ive o'd since the DnC to be honest, ive woke up tooday and the pain is gone so im thinking o has passed, only BDd on the day i got the opk but i guess il have to wait and see :/ All i can do really, every bloody month lol! How are u all!? Any news?!? Keep having to try and figure out where we all are in our cycles i can never remember lol! Well, i hope i od hours after thursday, at least next month if i have pain like i have done this week ill know when i o without having to do opks, ive had negative since that random one on thursday, oh well, time will tell, back to the TWW!! My chart looks wappy though, ive taken the temps out of it for menstrual cycle cos they were bugging me lol, my chart tallies up etc but i just feel like i should have bd more but im so exhausted xxxxx

 

[jen435]

Aerisandalex I am so sorry wishing u a heartbeat at ur ultrasound. U are wondetful to wait so long. I would of done same.we are here for you nomatter the outcome. wishing u comfort in the days to come.

 

[TTCSecrets]

Yes AerisandAlex, praying for a heartbeat for you xxxxxx

 

[jen435]

Natasha amy yay for tww. Id bd a few more days just so its shorter wait and just incase. Fxd for this cycle.

Angel bethany jessica horsey your all next to ovulate tons of ur way! Hope ur weekends off to great start!
Bethany hope u have all ur belongings soon!

Laura how are you feeling today?

Danni are u still on here? How are u?

Anyone I missed sorry!

 

[xoxo4angel]

I'm sure you caught O Natasha! I'm giving the temping thing a go this cycle, but I'm never awake enough for it to be a smooth transition. Don't know why or how, but I manage to drop the thermometer off the bed, then have to get up to find it. Obviously my temp is going to rise as I search for it, so I'm not going to rely on temping this round. My goal is to figure out what works best for me...I need to learn more about it to fully understand what means what

I am between CD7-9, so I've started poas. My CBFM is on the medium level today, I don't know how long it will stay there. My IC's are showing a line, but not the dark line. My RE appointment is Monday morning...I'll be poas a few times a day just to be sure I don't miss the surge. Not that I can do anything about it with DH being gone and Dr being closed on the weekend

Hope you ladies are having a good Saturday!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Hoping this is your cycle angel! FX for you, yeah i only started charting this cycle, on cd19 at the moment with very late ovulation this month! CD17 when its normally cd11, but saying that i honestly think this is the first time ive actually o'd since d and c, which is great,was very painful though, all the pain has gone today thank god cos it was that bad i almost passed out a few times yesterday...I hope i did catch it,thinking of bding a few more times like you guys say,i dont even know when to test cos no idea when af is due, although i would imagine i can use my luteal phase to figure it out because that stays the same dont it??
Im taking folic acid again, as i continued to after d and c but got lazy with it so i been taking it or a week, how are we all?

Ive decided that if i dont catch this month, im going to try and just do one or the other, either opks or temps etc n just go easy on myself up to christmas xxxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

Jen, have you decided to switch Dr's? Can you make the switch after your 12 week scan...that would give you the detailed information you want early on about baby AND allow you to transition over to the hospital with the cheaper cost.

Aeris, I am so sorry you are having to go through this. Fx it's just a scare and your LO has a heartbeat at your next scan. Either way, as the ladies have said, we are here for you!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Natasha ~ my LP was 12 days after my 1st AF, in the past it was 14. So give or take a couple of days you should be able to test between 30 Oct - 1 Nov! And I'm so sorry about the pain being so bad, maybe it was two eggys breaking free

 

[TTCSecrets]

haha i wish angel, but there are no twins in my family or anything, i dont even know anybody whos a twin never mind have them myself haha! Actually im lying DH dad was a twin but other twin died at birth

Im being serious, ive never ever had pain like it, even after the dandc this ovulation pain was awful, i couldnt even walk properly!

Im hoping ive caught it this month, ive had three more people i know announce they are expecting and all i see on my facebook page is their scans going up or constant moaning status' about their morning sickness and im like, you know what id go through every pregnancy symptom to the extreme just to know im pregnant again! xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

Tash Those women take for granted things we would cherish. You'll get your LO. I told my sister if God graces me with a healthy pregnancy, I'll sing his praise as I puke in the toilet or on the side of the road!

Heaps of for you!

 

[TTCSecrets]

haha i would!! Id literally pray every time i puke lol! This 2 ww is gonna kill me.... I just wanna see inside my belly n see whats happening xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

I know right! I'm guessing the TWW is the beginning of the years of patience it takes to be a parent.

Was just thinking about how we both had D&C 17 Aug and you are 10 days ahead of me! Proof there is no set rule or standard for what to expect next! Fx for you!

 

[TTCSecrets]

I think im 10 daysahead because my last AF 2nd October was a week early, i always considered 17 my lucky number until august :/

I even had a dream last night that i went in for a scan and i said to the woman thatb efore she does anything on the scan i want her to get the lady in to arrange my dandc again in case ive miscarried again, was a horrible dream really, i was just laid on the bed with the jelly on my belly saying to DH * it wont have a heartbrat anyway* it was awful Really saddening.. I need to stop dreaming lol!

I just am sick to death of tww, and im nly 2dpo, i thought i od last saturday but FF says different, so up until friday i thought i was 5/6 dpo and now two days later im only 2dpo, so i feel like im starting my second tww in one cycle ifthat makes sense

I hope this is our month angel xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

I hope this is it for us too. However, if I go Monday and they schedule me for an IUI because DH isn't going to be home for gO time, I will not get my hopes up. From what I've read they don't have a huge success rate without meds...just wish the Dr would give me something to increase odds. IUI is an out of pocket expense, so I'd like for her to make it worth my while! I will do my best to stay positive.

In the meantime, what awful dreams! Are you eating something different that could trigger them? Or they say pleasant smells can induce pleasant dreams, maybe you need to get some lavender oils?? Maybe the dream was because your tww was extended to a 2 1/2 week wait...so sorry. You need your sleep. Fx for a good nights sleep tonight!