Ttc after loss due to subchorionic hemmorage

[Pinkerton5]

Hi! We have started to ttc again this month after our loss in November at 14 weeks.... My baby was fine but I had a subchorionic hemmorage that caused too much bleeding it caused rupture... Has anyone experienced this and went on to have a healthy pregnancy? I so want to be pregnant again but I am terrified I will have another sch and stress the entire time! I believe I o'd on Friday we dtd 3 days before day of and day after... I know 3 days before is cutting it close but I originally thought I'd ovulate Sunday ooops!!!! Do you think we have a chance this month?!?!?

 

[Mrs W 11]

Hey Hun, I'm so sorry for your loss. I'd say you do have a chance of being pregnant this month definitely. When are you planning to test? Good luck. X

 

[Pinkerton5]

I'm going to try to stick it out until af is supposed to come next Friday or Saturday! Well hopefully I can wait lol! I just hate being disappointed with bfn! Are you ttc right now? The tww is terrible blahhhh lol!!

 

[Mrs W 11]

Hey pink! Yes I hate seeing a bfn too! Yep I'm ttc after a loss at 12 weeks in January. I'm on cycle 3 and I'm currently 1 dpo!! A whole two weeks to wait!! Arghhhh x

 

[Pinkerton5]

It's so frustrating that we have to go through all this ttc again!!! It's like every twinge seems like a symptom lol!! We can be ttc buddies!!! Fx for us!!!!

 

[Mrs W 11]

I know, each cycle after the mc has got harder as I get more desperate to be pregnant. Finding it a really tough journey and praying for a bfp for both of us this cycle!!

Only 2 dpo today haha!! A week to go for you! X

 

[dan-o]

Good luck ladies! I'm only on cd8, so wayyy behind you! This is proper cycle #2 since I had the d&c in jan. Had a very pathetic chemical last month, hoping this ones better. When will you test? I'm terrible, the sticks come out at about 6 dpo

 

[krulci]

You have no idea how grateful I am you posted this! I also had a subchorionic hemmorage, though I didn't realize that until just now. I was never given a diagnosis or explanation for an otherwise completely spontaneous miscarriage, and have spent the last four months completely frustrated and terrified with my baby's outcome and it repeating (as we are TTC). Thank you, thank you, thank you for posting.

As for your BDing, I'm not much of a fertility expert, but that's exactly what we did... so... I'm going to say you're not out in the hopes that we aren't either! Lol! But seriously, I'd say three times is plenty? I'm 4 DPO. Do you want to be testing buddies this round?

 

[Pinkerton5]

Hi krulci! Yes we should all be ttc buddies! So your dr never explained the subchorionic hemmorage!!! That's crazy I think some drs may not say anything as to not add stress but it's necessary to know your limitations so that is very frustrating it wasn't explained to you!!!! I have till Friday for af to arrive i want to wait till like Sunday to test just in case af comes later, when will u be testing? How far along we're u when you had the miscarriage? I hope we get bfp this month or at least soon!!!! Don't let the sch(subchorionic hemmorage) get u down for next time, I've seen 2 drs and a specialist since I miscarried and they all say it happens randomly and does not mean you are prone to them.... I did have clotting bloodwork profiles done just to make sure that wasn't a problem and they all came back fine, you may want to do that just to be sure! Keep me posted on how things go, :$. Baby dust to us all!!

Mrs w... I totally agree it gets so much more frustrating as the months go by!!!! 2dpo for you so about 2 weeks till testing!!! Fingers crossed!!!!

 

[Mrs W 11]

How are you feeling pink, any symptoms?

X

 

[Pinkerton5]

Argggg I'm having no symptoms nada!!! It sucks lol I keep feeling the sides of my boobs lol!! What about you??

 

[krulci]

Hi krulci! Yes we should all be ttc buddies! So your dr never explained the subchorionic hemmorage!!! That's crazy I think some drs may not say anything as to not add stress but it's necessary to know your limitations so that is very frustrating it wasn't explained to you!!!! I have till Friday for af to arrive i want to wait till like Sunday to test just in case af comes later, when will u be testing? How far along we're u when you had the miscarriage? I hope we get bfp this month or at least soon!!!! Don't let the sch(subchorionic hemmorage) get u down for next time, I've seen 2 drs and a specialist since I miscarried and they all say it happens randomly and does not mean you are prone to them.... I did have clotting bloodwork profiles done just to make sure that wasn't a problem and they all came back fine, you may want to do that just to be sure! Keep me posted on how things go, :$. Baby dust to us all!!

I've since switched physicians, but my OB at the time was overly optimistic and unconcerned... unfortunately. I started spotting at about 6 weeks and she was like, "Oh, you're good! Totally normal!" But I pushed for ultrasounds and blood work. Everything was coming back fine, though the spotting (minimal) continued. Still had a horrible, sinking feeling... Then, at my 10 week scan, she says, "Hmm! I'm surprised they didn't point this out to you! See that dark spot? That's bleeding. Oh well, everything will reattach and you'll be fine. Baby is looking perfect." Four days later I delivered the baby at home. A far cry from 'everything is perfect'!! I've been trying to figure out what happened ever since and this is the first time I've ever matched a diagnosis so I'm pretty excited! Were you given any advice on what to do in the future? Any prevention tactics? I was reading on other sites that it's very possible to keep a viable pregnancy as long as you go on restricted bed rest... I was on pelvic rest, but you see where that got me.

I am trying to hold out until at least Wednesday... That being said, I caved and tested at 4 DPO, lol! I'm weak. Are you still waiting till the weekend?

 

[krulci]

Mrs W - I just noticed our LO's are super close in age! DS was born July 4th 2012. Is the age gap worry killing you too? I wouldn't mind ttc so much if I weren't freaking out about them not being able to relate due to being too far apart. When do you plan to test? I think I'm going to try and hold out to test with one of you... Strength in numbers, right? Haha!

 

[Mrs W 11]

Oh yes! Freya was due 5th July but was 16 days late!!

Yes I am stressed about the age gap. I wanted a 2 year age gap and my last pregnancy was due 23rd July so exactly a 2 year and 2 day gap haha! But sadly I miscarried and now I'm looking at 2.5 years plus obviously.

I'm not planning to test early as I hate seeing a bfn and I just get so so stressed out!

How are you ladies feeling? I've had some cramping today and odd pinchy feelings, which has stressed me out because last cycle I started spotting at 5 dpo and af then came stupidly early at 9 dpo, but no bleeding so far, just creamy cm.

 

[krulci]

Oh yes! Freya was due 5th July but was 16 days late!!

Yes I am stressed about the age gap. I wanted a 2 year age gap and my last pregnancy was due 23rd July so exactly a 2 year and 2 day gap haha! But sadly I miscarried and now I'm looking at 2.5 years plus obviously.

I'm not planning to test early as I hate seeing a bfn and I just get so so stressed out!

How are you ladies feeling? I've had some cramping today and odd pinchy feelings, which has stressed me out because last cycle I started spotting at 5 dpo and af then came stupidly early at 9 dpo, but no bleeding so far, just creamy cm.

Whoa!! Props to you for holding out!! Someone has a comfy uterus, I see. I was resolute not to get induced with Leopold, either, but he showed up a week early. I had been dilating one cm for four weeks prior, though, so when I got to the hospital I was at 8 cm! Lol, made my job easier!!

Mrs W - how long are your cycles normally? Are all of your LPs short?

Pink - have you POAS yet? FX!

 

[Mrs W 11]

Oh no I was induced!! Got induced during the evening of 14 days overdue, went into labour 12 hours later on 15 days over due and after 24 hours of labour she was dragged out by emergency c section! Not quite what I had planned haha!

My cycles are normally about 33 days. I ov around cd 19 (which I did this month) and a 14 day luetal phase. It was just very short last cycle but I think I've had a major hormone imbalance due to my mc as I had a lot of mid cycle spotting last month and haven't had any thins month.

How are you doing? Any symptoms today?

I've been crampy and gassy today but I've just gone back on slimming world and eating epic amounts of fruit and veg which could be causing it!!

 

[Pinkerton5]

Hi ladies!!! I'm still holding off poas untilsunday ahhhhh so long from now!!!

Krulci.. I'm so glad you finally have a diagnosis as to what you had! Sch's are very common and most deliver to term I found out that it depends on a lot of factors like when u start bleeding( earlier is worse), how much and how often you bleed and if it's bright red a lot which is a fresh bleed and I had fresh bleeds once a week... Still always told pelvic rest... I call bill shit lol!! I have heard so many women say they were told bed rest especially after fresh bleeds until bleeding stops for 2 weeks... I saw a specialist after miscarrying and he was a waste of money honestly I think they read the previous drs notes and don't want to disagree or go against what the original dr said but he goes well you could put yourself on bedrest?!? I was like well if it doesn't do harm y wouldn't I lol drs annoy the living hell out of me after this!!

Other things I've researched is acupuncture with a acupuncturist who specializes in fertility! I have my first treatment friday(to help with building me up to concieve again). I don't have a problem concieving this is more to help with stress because boy do I stress!!!!! Also, I'll find out at my appt. what herbs I can use to build up my uterine lining... I'll let u know those after my appt. Also, standing for long periods of time puts pressure on cervix which irritates sch... I was never informed of this and I'm a vet tech I stand 9.5 hrs a day!!!

I was however told by 2 obs and that specialist that these are fluke occurances and each one of them said they have not seen a patient return with one in a second pregnancy ... So that gives me hope. And you too!!. If you look on these sites you'll see a lot of women say they have more than one, but that's most likely because the ones that don't don't come back to the sites lol! Also, if it were to happen again that we got a sch it does not mean it will end the same way especially after all the knowledge we have now!!

Oh and baby center has a couple great groups I'm on ... Sch loss group and a sch support group which is a very busy group

 

[Mrs W 11]

Pinkerton, I'm having acupuncture too! It's very good for rebalancing your hormones and in general for well being, anxiety etc. good luck x

 

[Pinkerton5]

Mrs w how many treatments have u done? Has it helped this will b my first treatment Friday I'm excited!!!

 

[Mrs W 11]

I've had 3 now in total. It's so hard to say if it has worked, but my cycle has gone from totally whacko last cycle to totally normal this cycle so it could have due to the acupuncture. Or the supplements I'm taking or maybe it would have happened anyway. But it has helped me feel like I'm actually doing something positive and I have enjoyed it!

Good luck with yours xx